friends help: I’m friendless…

mz suicide

I’m friendless…

i don’t have any good reliable friends..this is making school seem very hard for me…

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Sherooo 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

yeah… you do what u gotta do to get by kiddo.

Cosmic Fool 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Make the effort to speak to people. School is full of lonely people who find it hard to socialise. You’ll be doing them a favour aswell. After school clubs and the like are good ways of meeting people with similiar interests to you =)

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Nante 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Cosmic Fool wrote:
Make the effort to speak to people. School is full of lonely people who find it hard to socialise. You’ll be doing them a favour aswell. After school clubs and the like are good ways of meeting people with similiar interests to you =)

Yeah, I know how it can be, but your not the onlyone, try to be more sociable.

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bhernande 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I know the feeling buddy, I am an adult and still feel the pain, School may not be the answer, but there are community centers and parks, I have met people at both. if you see something or someone interesting make a comment with a smile and watch the conversation unfold and with it a new friend.

Or just tell everyone off and start a bad habit ha ha ha just kidding.

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Boffinbox 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Dont worry. You will make friends whether it is now or in 2 years. Dont attempt to “buy” friends either, or else they will “use” you. Talk to someone, have confidence, but dont talk to the wrong people. When you talk to them, talk for a bit and then go off and end the conversation. repeat every now and again, irregulary and they will soon start coming to you.

It doesnt matter if school is closed or not, you can still mett people and go to places.

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NOLA Lady 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (46 minutes after post)

Are you in summer school right now?
I didn’t make friends in high school either and it is tough to get through but it is possible. Are there any other friendless people in your school?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (59 minutes after post)

Right now you may be feeling really low, just remember its only temporary.
Tomorrows a new day. I had a ****** day myself, very low…nothing went right, things were out of my control. That’s life.

I was very quiet and kept to myself in school. I felt other people may have perceived me as nerdy, or a goody goody, and even ugly. Then, near the end of High School I blossomed, I approached more people to chat instead of waiting for them to come to me, and I worked on my looks. Now I bump into the “snobs” or people who were too cool for me once, and they tell me how good I look (and most of them are not as attractive as they used to be), how happy I look - its fantastic! Some of my transformation was genetics, but I changed myself too.

I used to always be depressed for not having friends, and always looked sad. people don’t want to spend time with someone who is a downer. That’s a fact. Find the fun and the happy however hard you have it. If you stay positive, do your best, good karma will come to you.

You don’t need many good friends, just one or two great ones. I can honestly say I have one best friend who I trust. Thats my Husband, and he’s not always perfect either, but with him I have no worries. There’s someone for everyone, just be a little open minded. Give others a chance too. Friends can be over-rated, they are as much trouble as good sometimes. I’m too busy making money now days to spend time with most friends. Then I go on vacation, and party with people I don’t even know.

Just hang in there. It will be worth it one day, and focus on school(you’ll be able to meet more people and have more fun when you make good money).

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 hours, 31 minutes after post)

Friends can’t make you happy. You have to make yourself happy. Find the positive aspects of yourself and do the things that make you feel and the people that have the same interests will find you.

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Dutch boy 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (20 hours, 25 minutes after post)

yea me too i need a girl the most

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SingerInPurple 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

well if you’re like me and you can’t help pushing people away, then why do you really need friends anyway….I have a few really great friends and they’re all I need…you just have to reach out and make sure not just one person is doing the work

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An Unknown Location | 10 months ago (6 months, 3 weeks after post)

i changed school about a month ago but have only gone to school for 2 whole weeks.. whenever i wake up in the mornings to attend school, i just feel very low and sad(not wanting to go to school). i was initially from this school about 5 years ago but only kept in touch with very few people and most of them have left the school. nowadays, i go for recess alone and also sit in class alone. i am the one that’s always making the first move. but then run out of things to talk about. i have thought of everything from going to a boarding school where i think i will make more friends since i’ll be ‘living’ with them, to homeschooling (not so easy to get permission from the government).. i know this is life but i don’t think i can spend another day going for recess, to chemistry classes and so on alone anymore. i’ve always told myself that maybe tomorrow things’ll be better, but it’s not happening!

i_w0uld_die_4y0 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 year, 3 months after post)

The school thing is so true.. I moved to Canada in 2005 and we moved back to Holland in 2008… I loved it in Canada, made so much friends and I was doing so good in school.. I was doing good in school in Holland too but now I’m back it sucks like hell. Everything’s so hard because subjects are different and making friends is not easy.. My parents don’t let me have fun they’re overprotective.. >. I wanna drop out of school but I’m only 17. I don’t wanna live in Holland >.> Ughh I miss my friends so #$$^$%&#$% much.. When you tell people how you feel they’ll be like oohh it’s okay you’ll be happy in no time. God. You guys recognize this? Teachers don’t care.. I tried to talk they recommended a psychologist -.- I just want friends… People to hang out with and stuff. I hate school and I hate my **** life.

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