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HERE IT IS. I have my best buds. Thelast week of school i was so stressed out and changed into a different person. And now none of them well talk to me. How can i apoligize and fix this?

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

It depends on what you mean by “changed”. If you were mean to them, apologize, if you ignored them, apologize.
If you know what you did wrong, you have to tell them you know what you did and you’re sorry.
Show them you still want to be friends. Treat them to ice cream or something if they are willing to hang out with you.
But they might not be ready to hang out with you just yet. If this is the case, still apologize and let them know you’ll be there when they’re ready because they’re friendship is important to you.
Hopefully they come around eventually.

It’s important not to avoid them from the get-go. At least let them know you’re sorry and you’re willing to start over

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emily_bee_ offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

I told them i am so sorry for being the rude mean girl i was. Tryin to impress some guy at school. And i told them there is still no excuse for what i did. PLEASE PLEASE forgive me i am waiting for a reply.

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Then wait for now. See if they decide to come back. But don’t try and force them. You must have really hurt them if they aren’t jumping back into a friendship with you. Understand that they need time to heal and time apart for a while.
Let it take its course. If they decide they don’t want to be friends again, respect that. But I have a feeling if it’s a close friendship they’ll forgive you.
But be prepared for any outcome

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emily_bee_ offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

OK. i just wanted to impress some guy. and i runied friend ships over it :(

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

Can I ask a question? You don’t have to answer if you don’t like…was it worth it?

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emily_bee_ offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Nope. he thinks i’m a loser either way

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

I’m sorry to hear that. If I were in your situation and I was trying to recover from all of this, I would try and let my friends know how much they mean to me and I would try and avoid letting this happen again.
We are only human. People don’t realize what they are doing sometimes until it’s too late. But we can’t beat ourselves up for it.

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emily_bee_ offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

i was cryin like crazy. On my msn and wrote changin myslef ain’t right so so sorry for those who got hurt along the way

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Well I’m glad you apologized. Now it’s up to your friends if they want to forgive you.
Think about how you would feel if one of your friends betrayed you for a guy.

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emily_bee_ offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (26 minutes after post)

I mgiht be hurt, yeah. thank-you

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (32 minutes after post)

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