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i’m starting to think that i am not an attractive guy.

girls don’t seem to like me all that much and my parents are worried that i’m gay because it’s been so long since i’ve had a date. the last date i had ended abruptly because i ate too much and soiled myself. all i do all day is take refuge on the internet, eat pie and cry myself to sleep. i’m starting to wonder if it’s worth carrying on.

can you guys be the judge and tell me if you’d date me? i’ve put a picture of myself below.

i’m desperate

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Sherooo offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

where’s the picture kiddo?

its not all based on looks you know. infact, thats the last thing that attracts me, personally.
i look for humour, a good laugh, an interest in stuff that I like.
i also look for compassion and kindness.

and being desperate is not good.
why do you need someone to like you that much? people can function perfectly well without a partner.
you need to be secure i yourself before you find someone else.

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bmarshall9 offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

dude, maybe the shatting yourself wasn’t the BEST move! haha… if you can hold your bowel movements until you hit a crapper, you probably would have been able to continue that date….. next time… take laxitive the night before, that way you’ll be clean and ready to go for the date!

there ya go kiddo… my personal advice… gift wrapped just for you. ALSO… i’ve noticed that females respond to confidence extremely well…. be confident and the girls will come to you.

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Richard cor de lyon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

here’s his video ~


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Sherooo offline Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

ahahahaha

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your gaurdian angel offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Thornbury, M6, GB | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

hey dude looks arent everything, just because a guy looks hot doesnt mean their a nice person, any girl can tell you that. and really wuld you rather go out with a smokin hot girl who treats you like **** or a average looking girl who treats you like a prince?
just try and act confidante when your around girls and have a laugh, your bound to find someone sometime ;)

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Dracut, MA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (15 hours, 42 minutes after post)

I see ugly guys with hot girls all the time! Do you think they say to themselves, “Oh, she is way out of my league..she’ll never want me!” NO NO. THey say to themselves, “I’m just as good as any guy and this girl WANTS me!” That’s the type of mindset you need dude! Girls can smell an unconfident needy guy right away.

Just learn to enjoy the time spent with a woman instead of worrying about all the things that could go wrong like pooping yrself.

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