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do you think a 12 year old boy dating a 14 yr old girl is acceptable?


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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

Yep :)

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SoulRising offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

As long as the boy does not try to do her science homework:) LOL:)!

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Just Lyza offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

okay…his b days aug 31 and mines april 15th?

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Just Lyza offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

whoam big time give away lol

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babsie offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

personly no i dnt think its exceptable but thats my opinion

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

lol
You’re both so young and only two years apart. I see nothing wrong with it at all.

What do you see wrong with it babsie? I’m curious to hear a different point of view :)

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Just Lyza offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

yah, idk.
I don’t want to “do anything” with him, but I like him a lot and think he’s really sweet. He skipped a grade and is smart for his age. So, I’m stuck lol

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Sir Cody † offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 52 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

You have so much other stuff to concentrate on and enjoy. Do’t bother with that type of stuff yet, it will only complicate things.

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SoulRising offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Have fun, age is only a number:)

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babsie offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

sorry if i upset any1 but im abit iffy when it cums 2 there bein age different

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Just Lyza offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

yah, but he’s going to ask me out tomorrow…so…yah.
thanks.
he’s in my youth group. I don’t want anything weird, it’s just…Idk..lol

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markitu offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
ES | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Cody J L wrote:
You have so much other stuff to concentrate on and enjoy. Do’t bother with that type of stuff yet, it will only complicate things.

So true… each one to their own taste, though… :)

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

babsie wrote:
sorry if i upset any1 but im abit iffy when it cums 2 there bein age different

I don’t think you upset anyone. I, myself, like hearing different opinions. Maybe you’ve thought of something I haven’t :)

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greenskitte offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Well, if he’s immature, then no. Most boys at that age really aren’t mature enough to handle a relationship. And honestly, don’t you want to wait a years so that you have a decent chance to actually grow up a little? Just asking. If you both fell like you a ready then go on ahead. No one’s stopping you.

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Just Lyza offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (13 minutes after post)

well, I’m not looking for marriage, lol
I’d just rather say yes then no.

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

It doesn’t have to be a “serious” relationship. You’re both kids for god’s sake. If you like him and want to date him, go for it! :)

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Just Lyza offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

thanks, I like that advice..lol

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

You’re welcome :)

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ale_gleez0 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 35 minutes after post)

yep

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babacup offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 hours, 22 minutes after post)

I think you should say yes. Go out have fun and don’t worry about the age.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 hours, 44 minutes after post)

male should be stronger for a female, so it is ok no problem she will enjoy

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Just Lyza offline Verified User (2 years) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (20 hours, 42 minutes after post)

haha, yah I got my senses back fast.
Nevermind.!

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