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I need help: What is the difference between being liked and being stalked?

I’m guessing it could be also obsession but I’d like people’s ideas on this.

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Hohenheim of Light online Verified User (6 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 344 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 minute after post)

Stalking makes the person uncomfortable…

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skyy offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

When someone like you they respect your privacy/space
When someone stalks you they dont care about neither. They just want to know where you are at all times and watch you 24/7

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Countess Chelsea offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 67 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

skyy wrote:
When someone like you they respect your privacy/space
When someone stalks you they dont care about neither. They just want to know where you are at all times and watch you 24/7

like the girl on Two and a half men

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Deaths_Girlfriend wrote:

skyy wrote:
When someone like you they respect your privacy/spaceWhen someone stalks you they dont care about neither. They just want to know where you are at all times and watch you 24/7
like the girl on Two and a half men

HA

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Countess Chelsea offline Verified User (2 months) Shouts: 67 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

i have a stalker..its creepy…

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skyy offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

I guess it would be funny if i knew what Two and a half men was… lol

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tiffl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

skyy wrote:
When someone like you they respect your privacy/space
When someone stalks you they dont care about neither. They just want to know where you are at all times and watch you 24/7

Even though they don’t come to my house and stuff, they try to insist talking to me via chat and use me to their advantage… -________- My friends say OH HE LIKES YOU but you know I want to barf. I really hate everything about that guy. Anything related as well.

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Not_Emo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I don’t think its stalking, just tell him you don’t like him.

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skyy offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

Well then dont chat with him. If he is making you feel uncomfortable then it shouldnt matter what your friends say. You know how you feel so just continue ignoring him

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tiffl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

I’ve told him that I do not like the attention and I have no intention of liking him back.

But he still doesn’t leave me alone so I blocked him.

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skyy offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

So you already solved your problem. Or is he still finding a way to “stalk” you?

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tiffl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

By phone sometimes. He texts me with these useless questions that I don’t want to answer. Most of them aren’t something you should ask or is impolite. He thinks he’s genius though and insists … but not always.. :(

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tiffl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

If someone makes it clear that they don’t like you, isn’t it right to leave to the person alone? Making excuses like… “they’re only playing hard to get” and ignoring their dislike towards them and in return only bothering them back……. D: Isn’t that out of whack?

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Not_Emo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

You should probably change your number, or tell your parents and have them talk to his parents to make him leave you alone.

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tiffl offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Thanks everyone for the advice
I’d better change my number

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dontAsk&IwontLie offline Verified User (2 months, 2 weeks) Shouts: 369 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

dont encourage someone, then call him a stalker. most people will quit hoping to win your love once you honestly tell them that you dont want them around. a week ago a girl wrote about just such a thing, and she told us that when he asked her for a picture, she laughed … dont laugh. dont giggle. dont flirt with him so that you can tell everyone that you are being stalked. If you still think youre safetly is in question then go to parents/school/ and the police.

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