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My friend is in trouble but she wont admitt it.In 6th

grade she started to hang out with these new kids not from school and theyre pressuring her and getting her in trouble.She now(9th grade)does drugs,smokes,drinks,and has already had sex.Shes nothing but bad and Im scared.She doesnt admitt to what shes doing when we all know it.I offer her help but turns me away and tries to get me doing stuff like that too.When I refuse she walks away.This isnt the same girl I knew 6 years ago.What happened?These people are not only tearing us apart but are tearing her life to shreads,and I cant do anything about it.

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Mr. P offline Verified User (3 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Start with, “We need to talk.”

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

About all you can do is to stay away from destructive stuff yourself. And if she needs a friend, be a true one, listen and encourage, but don’t cover for her.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 20 minutes after post)

Please dont be discouraged if you dont get so many replies. At this time of day Help.com is very quiet. So if you dont get the response you want it may be an idea to post this later in the day when the biggest part of the USA is awake - Regards Mas

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