Love help: How i can say i want to be with him but im so scared broken heart - Help.com

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Love is a risk.
Always.
It will do no good to say, “I love you and I want to have a relationship with you, but if you’re going to end up breaking my heart just tell me now so I can avoid the pain”.
It doesn’t work that way. Would be nice if it did! But if he does end up breaking your heart, chances are he doesn’t know it yet. Hell, you might end up breaking his heart, you never know.

i agree! love is definitely a risk. you can’t trap your feelings inside, out of fear of being hurt. you will deprive yourself of so much. if you love him, be with him

you should find some time with him alone and take a deep breath and tell him how u feel

My fellow Helpers have said it, and the Dali Lama has said it too; “Great love requires Great risk”.

Here is how love works… it sneaks up behind us, often when we least expect it… it leads us to the edge of a cliff, then whispers gently, lovingly into our ear; “Jump! … if I am true love I will catch you before you hit the bottom - broken and bloody. If I am not true love, well you see the jagged rocks below”. Then the only question left to ask yourself is, do you have the courage to jump.

Bright blessings ~ Richard