girl help: I get too attached to girls I go out with, It’s like the

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I get too attached to girls I go out with, It’s like

the first 3 weeks go alright, but then I just always start to really really like them, and we usually break up pretty early :( Is there any way I can delay, even potentially stop myself from liking them too much?

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Mas1st 379 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Cut down the time you spend with them - even if they are free - make it 3 dates a week rule and dont break it. Trust me absence does make a girl fonder of you. If you are seeing them all the time they will feel smothered and have no news to tell you as you will have been there the whole time.

Also - you wont like this - you need an outside life. See your friends. Do sport, volunteer. Stuff like that makes you a much bigger catch as it is a sign of the person you re going to turn into. Dont forget your studies - girls always notice that as well.

And lastly - dont moan or whine or say I miss you or worse I love you for a long, long time. Dont be tempted - it will kill it stone dead - Good luck Mas

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Miss_Em 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

EXCELLENT advice mas.
agree agree agree.

theresape 5 #
Waltham, MA, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Perfect, mas1s.

Got it, Barletta?

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Kimmi 22 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (41 minutes after post)

Wow listen to the MAS he knows what he is talking about. :)

Mas1st 379 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (55 minutes after post)

kimmi - Mas is the mother of a 15 year old boy - that’s where Mas gets all this information from - lol Mas

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Sherooo 15 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (56 minutes after post)

haha thats excellent advice mas. i may just take that advice myself!

Mas1st 379 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (59 minutes after post)

Thank you Sheroo - my child has women chasing him everywhere - this is how I know my advice works - I test it on my child before passing it on to the members of Help.com.

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Barletta 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

wow thanks Mas ^_^ and that somehow sounds cruel, about testing it on your boy :P

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Kimmi 22 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Oops so sorry to offend MAS….”SHE” knows what she is talking about. I should have known that the great advice was coming from a women :) he-he :)

Miss_Em 2 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 34 minutes after post)

mas is the legand

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