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From former posts tht I have written, I’ve written about a boy that I like, but I’m pretty sure he doesn’t like me , and on.

Well, the other day we were talking, and he was telling me how he just got a phone, and he asked me for my number and I told him, and he gave me his. Before I was slowly getting over him. But now I’m back to where I started, obsessed, kinda love struck feeling, nervous when I talk to him, etc. Also everytime I try to think of someone else, I always go back to him. About two or so months ago a friend of mine asked him if he likes me and he said a little bit, I just don’t really know her. Ever since then we’ve been talking quite a bit. What should I do?

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mccurry offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (32 minutes after post)

call him and tell him how you feel!! i dont know how old you are but life is to short to sit back and wonder. if he is telling your friend he kinda likes you then its possible that he is just as love struck by you and if he asked for your number and talks to you on a regular basis then you have a good chance. telling him how you feel is the best route, i know i’m a guy and sometime we are oblivious to the fact that a girl likes us unless it is completely thrown in our face :)

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theresape offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Waltham, MA, US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

Stay calm. Tell yourself, “This guy might be OK. I’ll give him a chance to prove himself, but he’d better not mess up!”

This puts YOU in the driver’s seat. YOU are the one choosing whether to get more involved with him or not. See how he behaves, how he treats you, how he makes you feel, then go step by step.

Repeat one more time: YOU keep the control. DON’T be a puppet to him.

As you get to know him better, ask yourself these questions:

• Does he make me feel good, or does he make me feel bad?
• Does he do what he says he’s going to do–for instance, if he says he’s going to call, does the phone ring?
• When we’re together, is he nice to me?
• Is he nice to other people?
• Is he someone I’d be proud to introduce to my parents and friends, or does he do things that embarrass me?
• When I talk, does he listen, understand, respond to, and remember what I say?

As long as he keeps you feeling good, and as long as he keeps being the kind of a person you choose to be with, then maybe a relationship will develop out of this. But the minute the bad feelings start coming up, I’d lose his number. You don’t have ANYTHING to prove. HE DOES.

Good luck.

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