Love help: First of all to set the record straight this all happened recently & now! - Help.com

Yikes! That doesn’t sound good at all. :( It sounds like things are way out of control in your life at the moment. Its good to get it out there though. I also wish I knew what sort of advice I could offer to help you through it. I am sure it will take a lot of strength to gain some of that control again. I think it can be difficult to let go of the bad stuff that and pick up to move forward from this point. I would say it looks like you know what you have your plate from your list above but to feel ready and know how to move on from there is the question. Some of those things will take some time and patience to resolve or get beyond. Sorry I couldn’t be of more help in your situation. Wishing you the best under trying circumstances and tough times.

Errmm - maybe you should look on the flip side - potentially a few of those things could have killed you - you are still here - isnt that a message in itself? - Regards Mas

And truth be told - the guy who molested you will get his dues in court. At least you have a friend to team up with to try and better your lives. Your car must have been insured as must your apartment so that will balance out eventually.

I think you are just going to have to concentrate on healing right now and also getting a new job/apartment. You have just had one of those ’spells’ of time where a lot of things happen at once. Be glad you got through it relatively unhurt and start making plans for your future. I’m sure the pain and the meds wont exactly be improving your mood but that will also pass.

See this as a clean slate to work on and if you have issues about the attack or the fire or your health then seek professional advice immediately.

Good luck - Mas