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It helps to see my thoughts.

I’m a typically happy person, but when something gets me down it infects everything. It messes with the way I think and how active I am. I hate how meaningless things seem when I get this way. I know it’ll fade, but I hate this stage in me getting over things. I don’t want to dwell, I just want to be me again. And I know that if I’m aware of the problem then I have some control over it, but I can’t seem to get a hold on anything. It’s like my body needs this wallow period and won’t move on without it. Perhaps I’m just slow.

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2 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I do belive thats the same with me. Something bothers you. you can’t stop it. I have not seen my gf for 2 weeks now because of that i cant sleep, i bearly eat. and untill you get it back it still bothers you. Its not slow, you are just concerned enough for it to stop you. well thats what i think.

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skyy offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

Or perhaps everyone goes through this period in life. It sucks but you are very intelligent and i know you will get through this sad phase.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

true, tho there is alot of things like this that bother me. ( over worried about everything)

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

…. i have to read these things…. ( everyone is not talking to you caperol)..im done with this site.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Yeah thanks skyy I know it’ll pass.

And I suppose it is just me worrying about everything. But does anyone else do that? It’s like one thing bothers you and it sets off all the other little things that bothered you but you let go, and suddenly you’re just kinda wading through a crap load of problems.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

capreol wrote:
…. i have to read these things…. ( everyone is not talking to you caperol)..im done with this site.

Wait what?

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

From what Skyy said, i thought it was directed to me ( as i usaly see it.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

capreol wrote:
From what Skyy said, i thought it was directed to me ( as i usaly see it.

Am I missing something? Skyy only said one thing…unless you’re talking about another post.

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skyy offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Yes at least i do. And yes once one thing go wrong it seems like everything is wrong. Then all the negative thoughts start creeping back up in your mind and you just feel like crap. Im still in that mood because my mom is sooo sad and depressed so therefore i cant get past my sadness.

capreol wrote:
From what Skyy said, i thought it was directed to me ( as i usaly see it.

Lol i do that all the time so its not just you

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Red_Sky online Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 157 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Aw skyy! That’s no good.

You ever make up stories in your head? Like just now I pictured us at a ball and just sitting their all pretty like and two guys came up and asked us to dance. The old timey kind of dancing too, pretty waltzes with floor covering spinny dresses.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Red_Sky wrote:

capreol wrote:
From what Skyy said, i thought it was directed to me ( as i usaly see it.

Am I missing something? Skyy only said one thing…unless you’re talking about another post.

I think what he meant was he always think a person is talking to him instead of the poster

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Red_Sky online Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 157 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

there*

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

Ohh alright got it.

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sans-sans offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

Sometimes upbeat music can snap me out of it, as if the part of my brain where hope resides is just waiting for the right trigger.

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skyy offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 45 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Red_Sky wrote:
Aw skyy! That’s no good.

You ever make up stories in your head? Like just now I pictured us at a ball and just sitting their all pretty like and two guys came up and asked us to dance. The old timey kind of dancing too, pretty waltzes with floor covering spinny dresses.

No but i wouldnt mind doing that. Whenever im down i come on here because it help me to escape my negative thoughts. I still be sad but its worse when im not online. Im not going to be on so much in august because school starts :(.

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Red_Sky online Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 157 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Haha yeah but what’s the right song? Perhaps some Dean Martin? His voice always made me happy when I was a kid.

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sans-sans offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (28 minutes after post)

Simone has a pretty good one on her Mod Day post.
http://help.com/post/180511-its-frida…

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (29 minutes after post)

I don’t start school until the 22nd I’m a bit scared but mostly just excited. College isn’t looming up on my like it is for everyone else. I want to welcome it, I can’t wait to meet new people, and get to classes. I think it’s just because I got confirmation yesterday that I’ll be alright in my classes. We got our AP scores back yesterday!! All 5’s!!

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

Haha the Cure Sans? Well I do enjoy that song.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)
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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

*Beams!* Oh that cheers me right up. But what show is that?

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sans-sans offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

NFI

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Red_Sky online Verified User (3 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 157 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

The interweb is failing me here. But alright I’ll take your word for it.

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sans-sans offline Verified User (8 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (52 minutes after post)

no f’ing idea.

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