friends help: my friend is 14 and might be pregnant.

kitty. {[.is.losing.

my friend is 14 and might be pregnant.

theres a 50/50 chance she is.
if she is she said she is going to keep the baby.
cause by the time she has it she would be 15.
but he now EX BOYFRIEND broke up with her 4 days later.
she let him get in het pants.
i really hope she’s not pregnant.
she would be able to handle it but,
shes wayyy too young to have a baby.

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readyforlifetobeover #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (4 minutes after post)

please expalin to me how ther is a 50/50 chance?

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theresape 9 #
Waltham, MA, US | 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

Listen and learn, Kitty.

I hope your friend turns out OK.

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sansceriph 506 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

If she has it..
adoption, adoption, adoption.

kitty. {[.is.losing. 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

no she wants to KEEP the kid.
liek have i t live with her and everything.

the 50/50 chance is because she didntuse protection.

Help me with: i dont feel alive anymore.

readyforlifetobeover #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (9 minutes after post)

ok, did he come inside of her (and yes, i do know that isn’t the correct spelling)

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kitty. {[.is.losing. 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

yepp he did.
achually i dont know.
but the apointment to see if shes preg or not is soon.

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readyforlifetobeover #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

well if he didn’t, more than likely she isn’t… believe it or not.

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sansceriph 506 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

There’s less than a 50/50 chance. And keeping a baby when you’re 15 is like an invitation to poverty. Not fair to the child. Either child.

kitty. {[.is.losing. 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (16 minutes after post)

i know but shes like rich.
but i just dont wan ther to be pregnant.

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readyforlifetobeover #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (17 minutes after post)

and another thing, but yourself in her situation and her in yours.
how would you be convinced by a friend.
and if the only reason you don’t want her to be prego is just because, then you are a bad friend.

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sansceriph 506 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (19 minutes after post)

Rich or poor, a fifteen-year-old is not equipped to raise a baby. People do it, but they miss some of their own growing up, and often are not good parents.

I don’t think you’re a bad friend just because you didn’t detail your reasons.

readyforlifetobeover #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (20 minutes after post)

i just have this feeling that she doesn’t want her friend to be pregnant is just because she is going to have to deal with this friend going through her schooling with all of the talk…

but like i said, she probably isn’t pregnant.

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kitty. {[.is.losing. 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (24 minutes after post)

hey! im not a bad friend.
i dont want her to be pregnant cause that is too much for her to handle.
she doesnt deserve that!

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readyforlifetobeover #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (27 minutes after post)

if she wants to keep her then it is her life.
it’s fine to be a concerned friend but since she is going to keep it she is also going to need support from you through the tough times, and you don’t need to be like, “i told you so” through them, you are going to have to help her.

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sansceriph 506 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (29 minutes after post)

I wouldn’t worry about it until you know. If she’s smart she’ll learn from her mistake. A sixteen year old boyfriend is not likely to be her love forever. And she risks STD’s.

kitty. {[.is.losing. 15 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (37 minutes after post)

nope the guy was a virgin. no std’s
ughhhh
readyforlifetobeover!
i mean i dont want the baby but if she had it
i would be with her anyway!
i did do a “i told you so”
when she said he boyfriend got in her pants
but that was cuase i hate his guts!
im just here for her no matter what seh does by im goign to try to keep
her from getting in any more troiuble!

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readyforlifetobeover #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (39 minutes after post)

all im saying is, you won’t be friends forever. or more than likely not after highschool anyway. just support her decision and go along with it. after all it is her life.

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