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Do you ever feel like you are a complete dissappointment to your parents?

I really want my parents to be proud of me, as I look at photos of when I was young and they seemed so happy and proud of me, now I feel like they must look at me and wonder how their little girl became the person I am today, and feel utterly dissappointed in the person I am now.

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phuckit offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 44 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (0 minutes after post)

why?

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littlenick offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 218 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (1 minute after post)

Have you talked to them about it?

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1 month ago (1 minute after post)

I am a major dissappointment. I used to be the all loved person.

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littlenick offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 218 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (2 minutes after post)

Well, answer the questions: Why? and Have you talked to them?

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Anonymous #
1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

Do you ever feel like you are a complete disappointment to your parents?

yes

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erin offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Augusta, GA, US | 1 month ago (5 minutes after post)

I feel like that all the time, but I try not to dwell on it.
If they think I’m a disappointment, then **** it.. I don’t care what they think.

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littlenick offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 218 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (7 minutes after post)

erin wrote:
I feel like that all the time, but I try not to dwell on it.
If they think I’m a disappointment, then **** it.. I don’t care what they think.

See that’s where you’re wrong! If you have that attitude you will never find a solution to your problems. You need to actually talk to them and ask them. If they feel like that then tell them to give you some constructive criticism. Parents will surprise you and will actually try to do their best to guide you in the right direction. Erin baby, don’t say f-it. You need to confront that problem.

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1 month ago (8 minutes after post)

I recently had an argument with my dad and he told me I wasn’t a nice person to be around, but we used to be really close, now I am barely talking with him as I know he is right.

erin wrote:
I feel like that all the time, but I try not to dwell on it.If they think I’m a disappointment, then **** it.. I don’t care what they think.

I really do care what my parents think of me though. They are really good people and I feel like I am letting them down.

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erin offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Augusta, GA, US | 1 month ago (10 minutes after post)

Thanks nick…I’ll consider it…

Well anon, what are you going to do about it? What do you think you’re disappointing them in?

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littlenick offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 218 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (11 minutes after post)

You haven’t said why yet. Are you going to? What did you do or not do for you to think that? If you want us to help and actually try to solve the riddle by ourselves at least give us viable clues.

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littlenick offline Verified User (4 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 218 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

Erin you’re my friend, I’ll do my best so the relationship with your parents does not go on the wayside!

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erin offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 76 #
Augusta, GA, US | 1 month ago (12 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
Erin you’re my friend, I’ll do my best so the relationship with your parents does not go on the wayside!

-hug- ♥

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