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I’m coping with a devestating time in life.

My girlfriend of 16 yrs took her life recently on Thanksgiving day. She suffered for many years. All attempts to help were to no avail. After the cost of treatment and funeral left me financially devestated as well. I was employed in timeshare and it was to emotionally diffiult to continue. After working minimun wage positions I futher went in crisis. I’m trying to find reasonable employment. Most of my experince is in Club and resturant Management. I have many years of experience. I need to find something soon. Any advice would be appriciated and returned to another. Pay it forward. Thanks for your interest. Kerry

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animalchic offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

im sooo sorry that must be horribly:( i wish i could help but i am not one to be talking about management or money sorry:(

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

I am so sad to hear your troubles. Just pray everyday to figure out what to do next you will get the answer. He listens to everyone. Life will get easier.

God Bless You and Hope things do get better for you. I will keep you in my prayers..

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (17 minutes after post)

well the ony thing to do is move forward………i know that sounds hard but its the only thing to do………ur either moving forward or falling back……….maybe work is the best thing for you………something to keep ur mind concentrated on something else rather than thinking about this tradgedy.

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mrkerryma offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

I agree, I need to stay busy. I guess job hunting is one form of taking my off issues.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 hours, 47 minutes after post)

try handing in your cv to job agencies. Look in shop windows for posts. Even go into restaurants and ask if they have any jobs free. Hope you find one and I’m sorry to hear about your loss.

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Jena offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (22 hours, 30 minutes after post)

I’m sorry you have to deal with such difficulties in your life. I’m no good helping with money or anything, but I will definitely keep you in my thoughts and pray for the best. If you need help with anything else though and you need to talk, don’t hesitate to ask. 3

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