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Oh god..

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This year is going to be my first year in high school.
I just moved from my old house to about 1 hour drive away
& I don’t know anyone around, im scared to go to high school and not do good and get in allot of fights and problems. At my old school i was realy popular and nice to everyone treated the pepole who treated me good , good and the pepole who treated me bad , bad. But I just have a bad feeling about this.. im not a person who realy pays attention in school no matter how much i try I just cant, help please?

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 month, 4 weeks) Shouts: 110 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

Look, I know how you feel…I had the same feeling when I started highschool…and trust me, you’re not alone. Just be yourself with everyone and you’ll do just fine. Try new extra cirriculars and join new clubs…I’m sure you’ll be fine! Good luck!

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 192 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

No one knows anyone in their first year of high school. If you’re paranoid about it, you’re just going to hurt yourself in the long run. Go up to people, talk to them. If you don’t like them, move on. Just be confident. If you’re confident, no one will pick on you. They only pick on the ones who look fragile and weak. Get a tutor from day one for the academics. Or, better yet, a study buddy. And no worries, you’ve got us to come to if anything unexpected comes up. Relax. You’ll be fine.

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CoOkIeMuNsTeRL offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

if someone trys to Mess wit you Just ignore them…there are a bunch of Dou’ch bags in Highschool but then there are a Bunch of people who are able to be your friend

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dreamPIn offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

welll what if someone starts making rumors and stuff im use to that now
and i realy hate that kind of stuff to much drama what do i do . do i ignore it?

thanksss everyone ! i really appreciate it

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slimline2 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Liston, 02, AU | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (19 minutes after post)

why do you say oh god ??? He is not going to help you he is an imagination . Its you you you what has to go to high school and make new friends .But firstly you are going and wanting to become somebody in your life. Get started,forget about loosers ,ignor people like that .Remember,there is a sucker born every minute …..

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dreamPIn offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (22 minutes after post)

he isnt a imagination.. but not lets get religious here
haha and yes there is a sucker born every minute
& thnks for the help

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animalchic offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

omgg! we have the same problem!!!!! im moving to a new high school for freshmen year and im freaked out! i was popular in my old school 2 wow were like problem twins:)

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dreamPIn offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (38 minutes after post)

hahaha realyy? i thought i was the only one! im realy scared though
well good luck :)

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animalchic offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

u 2:) I am freaking out i mean what if im different and end up being an outcast.. highschool is supposed to make you who u are right? i do NOT want to be an outcast

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Xeno Dragon offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 192 #
Phoenix, AZ, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (50 minutes after post)

High school does NOT dictate who you are nor who you will be. It’s just school. And you won’t be a victim unless you act like one. Go out, talk to people, make friends, and get through it. That’s all there is to it.

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{VDLC} offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Casa Grande, AZ, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 15 minutes after post)

It seems like your letting past expiriences and notions that YOU HAVE SET IN YOUR MIND dctate your future and most importantly your high school expirience.

Look at this as an oppurtunity to re-invent yourself!

New Look?
New Personality - work on your bad habit and make them better…
Get Organized and focused - really set yourself to being a great student the ossibilities are endless it’ll be hard but worth it.
Get Ivololved - be the athlete or school involved kid you always wanted to be go talk to a random group of kids be talkative loud outspoken, in clubs, this is your chance to be whoever you want to be!

Let Me Know How Everything Goes!

VDLC

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liz13 offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 48 minutes after post)

look guys, this step is like every other step you gotta take in life. When you move from home to nursery, from nursery to school, school to high school. You’re not alone and I’m sure more people feel the same way. You just gotta do it. Like its been said, no-one knows anyone. As for name calling and stuff, just totally ignore it. The more bullies get a reaction the more they will carry on. If you just totally blank them and don’t even change your facial expression or anything they will soon get bored and move on. I’ve been bullied myself at high school for about 4 years and it wasn’t nice at all. It was never physical but its amazing how words can hurt. But I learnt ways to cope. Find a way of targeting your anger (if you do get bullied)…like exercise or something. You’ll both be fine :D

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mz suicide offline Verified User (2 months, 4 weeks) Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 42 minutes after post)

changing school…meeting new people…living in a new place is all part of growing up…you’ll be fine hun…i got through it and im still alive…

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