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I think abortion is murder.

one of my bests thinks she is pregnant and wants my help to get an abortion w/o her parents finding out.

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_Gabi 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (56 minutes after post)

Does she know if she really is yet ? Calm her down and make sure first.

bobosnickums 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

good for you, but not everyone shares your narrowminded view. try putting yourself in your friends shoes for one second and get off your high horse.
well, if she is your friend. youre seeming very callous and uncaring right now.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

More info might help

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darkdream1211 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

I did try to calm her down. I told her to just breath and when she got back from vacation my aunt will take her to the hospital to get a pregnancy test there. I tole her we could fix it and everything would be okay. I just don’t know tough, before this happened I always joked around that if one of my friends got pregnant I would make them have the baby and take care of it. I want to help her but if I did I don’t know if i would be able to live with myself.

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bobosnickums 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

do what you want. but its not your life or your baby, so dont be tellin her its murder and guilt her into having a child she doesnt really want and cant take care of.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

She should find out if she is pregnant before she get a abortion

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darkdream1211 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

I didn’t tell her that. Not when she needed my support. Without me she wont be able to though, she has no one else that could help her. I just cant find peace with it.

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Wanderling 4 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 42 minutes after post)

you’ll just have to choose the lesser of two evils. either she has an abortion, which would hurt your conscience, or she has the child which neither of you may be able to take care of. can you really afford to give this future child the life it deserves? if not, then abortion may be the better option.

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darkdream1211 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

I know that, realistically i would tell her to put the child up for adoption but theres a chance it wont get adopted and she is also adopted and has said she never ants to make a child go through what she has.

she would be ****** if her parents found out. Im going to help her ? I am. she cant handle this. Your kinda right courtybubble

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estragon7 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

given your view of abortion, there is nothing wrong with saying that you will help her in every possible way than that. you have to live in accordance with your own conscience and just as no one should force your friend into having a baby, no one should force you into doing something you believe to be the same as murder.

darkdream1211 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (2 hours after post)

except you exaggerated a little.

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bobosnickums 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (2 hours, 16 minutes after post)

yea i tend to do that…

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_Gabi 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (2 hours, 22 minutes after post)

That’s good that you are helping her.

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (6 hours, 3 minutes after post)

courtybubble wrote:
good for you, but not everyone shares your narrowminded view. try putting yourself in your friends shoes for one second and get off your high horse.
well, if she is your friend. youre seeming very callous and uncaring right now.

WHAT?!?! she seems uncaring.

People cannot help they way they feel.saying that she is uncaring is a little rude.
If she didnt care then she would not be posting this.and obviously she wants to help.

laurensara #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 10 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Yes it did seem uncaring i agree with courtybubble and i do not think what was said was rude at all. Abortion is one of the hardest decisions any1 would ever have 2 make and i dont agree that anyone should be swayed into making a decision either way and yesshe wants to help which is great but ultimately it will be her friend that has to cope with it not her she should not influence her friend in any kind of way she should just let her friend know that whatever she decides she will be there for her.

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