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I’m at this summer camp called CTYI for three weeks and there’s this boy.

He’s actually dating a girl who used to be my best friend.
But he’s acting weird, good weird though.
He wants to help me, but it’s sort of a problem, his help in the past has turned out badly for everyone, albeit accidentaly.
And I’m scared he’ll tell people what I tell him, even though I know he wont.
The other thing is, I think I like him.
Only I dont know.
Another friend of mine at camp warned me it would happen before I ever talked to him really properly, which was for the first time, like, 4 days ago.
2 days ago she was with me and I saw him and I was going to go say hi and she says to me ‘you so like him’
and she thinks he likes me back, and that he would cheat on his girlfriend because he technically was with another girl when he went after her.
He says he cares about me, he says he wants to help, but he is kind of weird, and I don’t know if he’s messing with my head or if maybe some of the things he says are meant in a more then friendly way, like wanting to know who I think is hot and if I think he is and do I like him and other stuff like he cares about me or that he loves me.
I know his girlfriend is totally committed to him but I don’t know about him.
Like, she once said that if they ever broke up she’d kill herself and the other day he made a reference to the future that included her but then said ‘if we’re still together or whatever’ and he also said that there are scenarios where he might die for her.

Saying that it’s wrong to get involved with a taken guy is not what I need to know, because I already know that. I’m hoping someone can tell me if I should say something to him or tell him I like him or ask him what’s going on or what because it’s very confusing.

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Nante offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 423 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Well I mean, If you like him you cant controll that but you shouldnt say anything that might come between him and his girlfriend, if he asks you I think you should be honest but I dont think you should bring it up on your own.

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jessic_spec offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Strum, WI, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

if he asked you tell him dont lie and ask him see that you to seem kinda like friends what is going on with him and his girlfriend

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signmycast offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

okay.. so, don’t bring it up and don’t lie

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jessic_spec offline Verified User (11 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Strum, WI, US | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

he asked you so its ok for you to tell him.

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signmycast offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

yes, but! that was yesterday and i had to answer him so i just gave him an answer that wasn’t yes or no but would seem like a no, basically, if i tell him now it would be bringing it up.

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Nante offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 423 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

Well if he Ever asks again just be honest.

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signmycast offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

what should i do when he starts saying things like, ‘am i hot?’ or ‘i care about you’ and that stuff?

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Nante offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 423 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

Well you can just joke with him like “Not as hot as me” or when he says he cares about you say “Yeah I know” just play with him, Or ask him why he wants to know.

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signmycast offline Verified User (8 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Dublin, 07, IE | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (45 minutes after post)

okay, cool, thanks, good advice i reckon

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Nante offline Verified User (4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 423 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 3 weeks ago (49 minutes after post)

Your welcome I hope it all works out.

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koran, the vampire offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (2 weeks, 3 days after post)

hes beet me to it i so would of sid the same thing

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