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Ok, I have to ask. All your posts are about getting to Korea. Why do you have to get there? Who or what is there that you’re trying to get to?

Nvm, found answer in your previous post.

I see. All I can really say here is if she’d leave you over a misunderstanding like that (or cheat on you, which was the fear you referenced in your other post) then you might want to consider that the relationship isn’t as beautiful as you think it is.
Just chillax, she’ll be home in a couple of weeks.
Granted, it would be a sweet gesture to show up in Korea to tell her how much you love her, but people that make grand gestures like that usually have disposable income.
You say she thinks that you didn’t want to talk to her and that you were avoiding her. How did you find this out? email?

Oh well I see your predicament then. That’s tough when you’re forced to be apart and one doesn’t trust the other.

But don’t you see that if she doesn’t get this fixed in herself, you’ll never be able to stop chasing after her trying to explain yourself? There will always be something she misunderstands, because she’s looking for things.
I really do hope you can come up with the money to get to Korea, because I think it’s a sweet, romantic gesture. But I’d hate to think of you having to deal with this problem for the rest of your life :(

I wish that you could go to Korea, too. However, I doubt that it would solve the problem. You say that you did talk for a little while. Did you have time to explain that you had been trying to call her, without success? If so, then she knows that it is your desire to talk with her. If your fear is that she is so insecure that she will feel abandoned by someone who is clearly awaiting her return, then she has a flaw that she needs to work on. She may need professional help with that. You can’t always go to extremes to reassure her and if you try to do that, I believe that you will wear out your love for her. Does that make sense?
Just before I pushed the reply button, I saw that Chameleon just said pretty much the same thing. So, now you have to similar opinions. I hope it helps.

Why does everyone think I’m a guy? :/

I’ve changed my avatar due to the fact that people think I’m a guy.
I theorize it’s because they’ve never heard of a chameleon and see the word LEON at the end and think it’s my name. LOL

Chameleon wrote:
I really do hope you can come up with the money to get to Korea, because I think it’s a sweet, romantic gesture.

what guy says that?!?!? lol

If it makes you feel any better Chameleon, I thought you were a girl (:

Thanks Barletta! That DOES help! :D

:] hehe glad to help.

Here’s an idea to raise money: get a job.

this may sound silly and simple, but it is the truth. in order to have a strong and happy relationship you need to start with these 3 things. LOVE, TRUST and COMMUNICATION. you can not have a relationship with just 1 or 2 of these things. you need all 3. if she loves you, she can honestly talk to you and if she honestly talks to you, it would be obvious to her that she can trust her feelings to you.
another thing, i know some say you should waste the money and go to korea. this would be a big mistake. yes, it may her happy and you come back home only to deal with her next big insecurity flare up. take it from a guy who has seen his fair share of friends going through this and in the end the person doing all of the chasing and fixing just becomes tired and wonder why they wasted so much time on a cause that was lost from the beginning. these issues begin with her and not you. you are still where you are. she is the one bouncing all over the globe. tell her you are the same guy that you were before she left and nothing has changed and you are patiently waiting for her return.”