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This Wonderful Girl.

We work at the same place, and she is leaving to go back to school the middle of August. I’m 21 and she’s 19. I really think that I’m falling for her. I really like this girl, and I recently asked her to hangout and she said sure. The problem is I don’t have a car, but she does. I don’t want her to have to drive me around all the time if we do start to go out. Will she think less of me if I don’t have a car? Should I take a chance and go for her? Where should I ask her to go?

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Barletta offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

You don’t necesarily have to go in her car….a nice walk or something? But if shes the ‘wonderful girl’ you say she is, she won’t mind that you dont have your own car.

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estragon7 offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

ask her out. offer to pay for the gas. you don’t have anything to lose.

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Chameleon offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 676 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Pay for a cab to drive you two on dates. That’s what they do in big cities where most people don’t have cars because there’s no where to park them. lol
That way she’ll know you’re not a cheapskate too :)

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Pae -שגשצ- offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 38 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

If she really likes you as a person she won’t care whether or not you have a car or not and she’d be happy to drive while you’re going out. As long as you don’t ask or rides yourself (unless you really need a lift), you’re good.

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JackieMa offline Verified User (9 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Gurnee, IL, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 30 minutes after post)

I do not think she will mind hun. I have had guys who are older than me not have a car and i would go get them and drive around or whatever. It only started to bother me when the guy became “ungrateful” with me driving. So, make sure you let her know you appreciate her driving. Other than that…no worries hun! ;o)

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