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ok well i have this friend who is going out with my

other friend who i have a huge crush on help me i dont know what to do

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estragon7 offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I think you have to do your best to accept things as they are. your friend is dating another friend who also happens to be your huge crush. all you can do is try to be happy for them and go about living your life. maybe one day they will break up, but given that they are your friends, dating an ex might put a strain on the friendship and then what if the relationship with the crush didn’t work out? then things between both friends would be different.

go out with other people just for fun, not because you are looking for a steady boyfriend/girlfriend. see what happens. maybe you’ll find someone to help get your mind off the crush, or get to feeling better just by being out of the house.

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Whatever You Do DONT Cheat With Him, Trust Me I Know First Hand How That Works And He Won’t Respect You.

I Know How Hard It Is But All You Can Do Is Wait Till They Brake Up And Ask Him Out.

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Barletta offline Verified User (10 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

be happy for them. I know it’s hard, but if your a real friend, you will know that they are happy for each other.

It might not last though, so make sure you stay close to the friend that you like. Support them, so if they do break up, she/he will turn to you for closure, then your in! :D

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Tator03 offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 23 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 10 minutes after post)

No No No No — Go away from the friend thing, You do not want you best friends ex even if you have a big crush and is your friend also. There will be major problems. Get you mind away from the whole thing. Just find someone else and go in that direction. If you both are ment to be together, later in life it will happen. Wait at the least 2 to 3 years after the break up of your friends. Then again I would think twice about it.

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