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Think of your sister. You don’t want her to kill herself. What message will that send to her if you kill yourself?

First: dump the friend that’s using you. You don’t need that in your life.
Second: talk to your mom about your feelings if you can. Ask her if you can go to therapy. The therapist will have good ideas of groups you can join and things you can do to better your life and meet the right kind of people in your area.
You’re not useless.
You’re a beautiful 13 year old. Are you a girl?
You have so much coming up in your life that you can’t even imagine now. You don’t want to miss any of it.

Does your family know how you re feeling? Talk to your sister about it, if she has been suicidal before, she will understand what you are feeling.

1. Stop thinking about yourself. That is a killer. Start thinking about others. The very thinking that “I dont have friends…” these kind should be removed. Change the way you think about yourself.
2. Start thinking about people around you. Think what you can do for them.
3. Start involving yourself in other’s life. Friendship will automatically come when you see other’s need and work on it.

Sometimes we get frustrated because we dont get the friendship that we want. We can not do anything about it. But there are people like you longs for friendship. You will find them only when you start thinking about others and not yourself.

This is the key… Enjoy

You wont be setting a good example to your sister now will you?
Talk to her, she must be going through the same emotional feelings as u, u can help each other out, so why not mention it to her?

Hope I helped.

Okay dump yur friends

Then Discover what make’s you happy and why your unhappy with everyone else.

Learn to love your self for who you are and if you don’t like the image drink plenty of water and get up early for a 30 minute walk every morning and you’ll see the results.

Be socially active - show that personality - be the person you want to be!

Once you discover what makes you happy do it!
Volunteer, join clubs, start a hobby, do what you wanna do

VDLC

my thirteen year old daughter is also overwieght and she used to be very low on her self esteem as well but she found that people take her for who she is and what she looks like. i suggest you involve yourself in something other than school to find friends that have stuff in common with you and will like you for you. my daughter has made tons of friends playing soccer and it has given her self confidence as well. no one is perfect. live your life to the fullest and you will be happy.