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my gf treats me like crap she knows i suffer from depression

and says i am ****** up in the head and i wont go nowhere in life and i shud be happy to have a gf… i cant do nothing without her getting mad i cant sleep without asking her… and i am not aloud to talk to my friends. i am not aloud to go nowhere but she can go where ever she wants.i work and my money goes to her and spend it on stuff she doesnt need.. when were tight on money i give up my food for her to eat.. i feel stupid cuz she controls my life

like what i wrote it sounds so bad it couldnt be true and it is and it really sucks…

i just wish i was stronger

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~lilies~ offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 312 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Even if you were stronger, it is not fair for you to deal with this kind of girlfriend. If you were able to talk about this and still it does not work, i guess it is time to really let it go.

If a person treats you like crap, why would you still hold on?

I hope you have someone to talk to face to face.

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An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

This is how i think. You get to live once, make the best out of it!
If this lady does not treat you right she must be a uncaring person.
Why would anyone want that in a relationship. If she loves you she would not be this way. You should find someone better someone who will understand you and always be by your side no matter what and tell you everyday that she loves you. Get rid of her. Don’t have her control you’re life, love is not soppost to be like that make the best out of it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (54 minutes after post)

Hi, toxic.
Well, usually most guys should be happy to have a girlfriend.
Well, one who shares and loves and cares, anyway.
Not this one.
When I read this post, my heart just wanted to stop.
Wow, toxic.
I can feel your pain in your words.
Please do yourself a favor, please??
Just step back from all of this negative stuff, okay?
How does this girl treat her friends and family.
THAT is definitely a clue of how she will treat YOU.
But wow she sure is controlling.
You have to ASK her if you can sleep?
Nah. NOt good.
Maybe one day she will be standing over you, and you will be begging her to let you LIVE.
There is a whole world of wonderful girls and women out there.
Do NOT get yourself all stuck with one who makes you so unhappy.
You are a very nice looking guy.
And you must be very very caring if you let her do this to you.
So, you should have no problem getting a new girl, if that is what you want.
So, please just look out for number one—YOU.
And then things should just fall into place for you.
Good luck, love!!
Please let us know how it goes.
Rose

mcollar offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

You attract people like yourself. Stop seeing her until you change. Even then, you may not want her back.

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~ToXiC~ offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 37 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 36 minutes after post)

mcollar wrote:
You attract people like yourself. Stop seeing her until you change. Even then, you may not want her back.

idk bout that thoe like she i never do nothing wrong and stuff she says i am perfect and all that.. and i ever see myself being like her.

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~ToXiC~ offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 37 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 40 minutes after post)

ab wrote:
This is how i think. You get to live once, make the best out of it!
If this lady does not treat you right she must be a uncaring person.
Why would anyone want that in a relationship. If she loves you she would not be this way. You should find someone better someone who will understand you and always be by your side no matter what and tell you everyday that she loves you. Get rid of her. Don’t have her control you’re life, love is not soppost to be like that make the best out of it.

yeah that is true.. but every girl i date i seem to pick ones that treat me like crap.. do i have a bad taste in girls??

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~ToXiC~ offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 37 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (9 hours, 43 minutes after post)

“Rose” wrote:
Hi, toxic.
Well, usually most guys should be happy to have a girlfriend.
Well, one who shares and loves and cares, anyway.
Not this one.
When I read this post, my heart just wanted to stop.
Wow, toxic.
I can feel your pain in your words.
Please do yourself a favor, please??
Just step back from all of this negative stuff, okay?
How does this girl treat her friends and family.
THAT is definitely a clue of how she will treat YOU.
But wow she sure is controlling.
You have to ASK her if you can sleep?
Nah. NOt good.
Maybe one day she will be standing over you, and you will be begging her to let you LIVE.
There is a whole world of wonderful girls and women out there.
Do NOT get yourself all stuck with one who makes you so unhappy.
You are a very nice looking guy.
And you must be very very caring if you let her do this to you.
So, you should have no problem getting a new girl, if that is what you want.
So, please just look out for number one—YOU.
And then things should just fall into place for you.
Good luck, love!!
Please let us know how it goes.
Rose

i want to say thank you.. cuz i barely started this thing last night and already it seems to help.. what you said really made me feel better bout stuff..

idk why i feel like i rather be with them then feel the pain of not being with them like i am afraid

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (14 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Hi Toxic! I’m glad that I could help, even if it was just a little.
Feel free to shout me, ok? Anytime. We are all just a few keystrokes away.
Be good to yourself! :o)
Rose

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**-nicoliii-** offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (22 hours, 37 minutes after post)

u should ditch her im share u would be alot happier without her,

if u cant ditch her then will have to try and wear the trousers

nicoliii
x-x

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~ToXiC~ offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 37 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

**-nicoliii-** wrote:
u should ditch her im share u would be alot happier without her,

if u cant ditch her then will have to try and wear the trousers

nicoliii
x-x

lol i like how you put that.

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**-nicoliii-** offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 day, 22 hours after post)

thanx have u fort about wat u gunna do yet

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~ToXiC~ offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 37 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 20 hours after post)

no idk its hard i dont like bein alone

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**-nicoliii-** offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 21 hours after post)

so find someone else u dont need her !

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**-nicoliii-** offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (2 weeks, 2 days after post)

i dnt no do u have any friends u like ?????????? or dating sites

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