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I just don’t know.

I’m in love with her I know that much. I like to be with her but sometimes when I think about it I don’t really like her at all. I thought she patched up my wounded heart but maybe she just put a band aid on it. It still stings but it can’t bleed. I love her but at the same time I don’t. I tried to break up with her but I stopped myself I know the pain of the one you love leaving you. I don’t want to leave her but I do at the same time.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

No one could patch the wound even if the person can offer the biggest bandaid in the world. I know how it feels as this one hits close to home. But i think honesty is very important now.

Let this girl know that you are still healing. So she would know where she stands in your life. She might expect too much if you won’t tell her the real feeling you have.You don’t want to hurt her by letting her expect more than you can offer.

And you know, i think it would even be best to stay single if you are still healing. If you need this girl too much that you don’t also want to let her go, then at least the two of you could agree to take things slow.

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