If you want ot have the baby I don’t think your parents should bully you to get an abortion.
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With all due respect to your family, forget them. I dont have a kid but, if I were having one i wouldnt let anyone decide what to do. Do as you must, this might be the best thing that will ever happen to you. Trust me, when they see you with their beautiful new grandson/daughter they will melt away their concerns. Good luck
Havin a baby is a big decision and responsibility. u should really think bout it. I mean i luv kids, nd don’t think u shuld hav an abortion. Try and build up ur life well nd prove to ur parents tht u can do it, nd tht u want to keep the baby. they shuldnt hav any control over ur decision.
or you could have the baby and give it up for a open adoption
The decision you are trying to make is a tough one, but your heart has already made it for you. This is not your parents decision, it is just not. The fact that they are trying to force you into something like this makes me question whether they know your heart and what is best for you. Honey, sometimes it is best to make your own decsions and suffer the consequences that follow. Your parents may disown you for a while, or they may have been trying to scare you, but if they love you they won’t stay away long. If you don’t have the means to raise a baby I suggest you consider TJs advice about adoption. If your heart is saying NO, than PLEASE don’t have the abortion! My prayers are with you and your family.
Max
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Thankyou For Giving Me Ur Advise x
I Think I Am Going 2 Keep The Baby =]
I 18
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Thankyou For Giving Me Ur Advise x
I Think I Am Going 2 Keep The Baby =]
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We are here for you if you need us!
Most Universities have childcare services that are very good. You can breast feed and visit your baby while going to school if you get the baby enrolled in the onsite childcare.
Is the father going to be part of this child’s life when you have him/her?
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I’ve been there and let me tell you I regret making the decision to not keep the baby. I was 18, Im 20 now. I know what it is like to have the love for a child that you havent even seen yet. You have to do what your HEART desires. Not your family, not your boyfriend. Ultimately the decision is up to you. Your family will learn to accept it. If not then remember you will have that baby who will be someone who will love you and need you more than you imagine.
have the baby dont have a abortion cuz sometimes that can mass you up in the long run and you will always think about what you missed out on. if you cant keep it after it is here then think about open adoption that way you and your boyfrined can still see the baby. do what is going to make you up. you are 18 you can make up your mind now. its your body you can say what is done to it. we all are here for you so just keep us posted
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Has anybody actually forgotten that we are talking about a persons life here? Don’t get me wrong if someone felt they could not cope with pregnancy then I would support an abortion but I think some people are being too casual with the fact that you could be throwing away a tiny little life! :( If you think you couldn’t cope with a baby at your age or you are concerned about what your family think, then put it up for adoption rather than having an abortion. Don’t forget, abortions can affect your ability to have children in the future and it can also emotionally scar you since most mothers grow very attached to the unseen child. If you and your boyfriend are in a stab;e relationship, and you really want to have this baby then I see no reason why you shouldn’t. You’re 18 now, and have control over your own life so sometimes it’s okay not to respect your families wishes. Try to remember that your happiness comes first, and that eventually they would warm up to a new grandchild in the family. Chances are they are just worried about your education, thinking that having a child at your age would be a burden and would stop you reaising your potential. But even if you can or can’t keep it, I suggest you still go through childbirth. Unless of course you don’t think you would be able to cope with pregnancy or the child would have a horrible quality of life.
Good luck to you :) I wish you the very best.
I don’t think anyone on this post seemed to miss the fact that we were discussing a person’s life.
actly we are talking about 3 people lifes
You are old enougfh to decide for yourself, trust me if you want this baby have it, it will be the best thing you will ever do and you will always regret it and resent your parents if u let them decide for you, massive hugs, your family will warm to the child even if you really think they woont at all
xxxxbe strong and independent, get your boyfriend to take some of the blame, sod uni, u can go aother time!trust me!
its up to you and your boyfriend not your family or his. i guess what i have to ask is he welling to help out
Hello, this is your decision hun, and your parents shouldn’t be making this decision for you. Having the baby will put off schooling for a bit, but you know you can always go back, you can’t get back what you lost when you abort your child.
No one discusses the feelings and the life long emotional trauma you will endure if you make a decision such as this, to end it’s life.
you have to decide what is best for you both, and if you went through with it, it most likely would tear you and your boyfriend apart, or create distance between you both. Abortion should not be a ‘quick fix’ to a problem… it may be a good idea to research what the details are to an abortion to help your parents better decide.
I can understand they do not want you to “throw your life away” but they should support you in what you decide. This is your life, and you life your life for you, not them. You have a hard decision, but you will make the right one for you regardless. They may be mad for a while, but they won’t disown you… they love you and want the best for you, and once they see thier grandchild, love will cover any hurt and pain…
Keep the baby, if you abort it and you dont want to you wll regret it for the rest of your life!!
Hello there, congratulations on the baby. Your parents would not like me telling you this, but that is your life and therefore, you should give yourself a chance to prove that you can decide on your own.
They are worried for you and they think what’s best for you. But remember that you are the only person who knows the best for you.
Listen to your heart. It gives you the best answer.
Keep the baby.
hi i had an abortion when i was 15 because my parents wanted me to its not so hard for me now but it messed me up 4 a long time and i still think about it now although i do now believe it was the right decision i didnt 4 a long time i hope whatever decision u made it was the one u chose 2 make, im not against abortion at all but i think its a big thing to go through and when that decision is made by someone else its much harder 2 get through i am 23 now and i have had another one this year it wasnt my choie again and a big part of me regrets ignoring what i wanted. Its not an easy decision 2 make but i hope its u that makes it
xxxx
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Hey, i just wanna share my part of story. I am 19 years old. I just had an abortion few days ago. I was actually forced by my sisters to abort. My parents didnt know anything about the baby. My mom is sick so she might die if she knew about it so my sisters kept it as a secret. I really wanted the baby but i had no choice because there was no one around me that supports me. My boyfriend didn’t want to be responsible for the baby so he left and got himself a new girlfriend… It took me 3months to carefully think about the future if i had the baby. I was even beaten up by my sister. my other sisters cursed me and the baby. I didnt know what to do. I even ran away from home for 2 months. I really regret what i did because i gave up easily. And now i couldnt sleep thinking about my baby. The abortion process was hard. I suffered real bad. I know my baby is in heaven. I pray everyday that god will forgive me for killing that innocent soul. I prayed hard that my baby will forgive me too. But day and night i cry my lungs out. My ex-boyfriend doesnt know that i had abort it. I cant stop thinking about my baby that i even thought of suicide. It’s all my fault. I just hope other people think wisely before you act and dont do it just because your family forced you to do it. And for those around them PLEAAAASE lend them your shoulder to cry. help them go through the pregnancy. Don’t help them just because you want the baby but help them to save another live that they’re carrying. I just hope that somebody tried to help me but i know that’s impossible. Don’t make the same mistake that i did. It’ll definitely ruin your life.
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wateva_i: whos knows maybe your mom would of been happy that she would of been a grandma
i think i am pragnant and i really don’t want to be what should i do
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