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How do u react when a friend tht u were so close to tells u tht they don’t care about u.

Do u just forget bout it nd move on, or b mad at tht person. I don’t kno how to react to tht. HELP PLZ!!!

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c-eek offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 39 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

If a friend tells you that they do not care about you, consider that the friend may not be capable of caring about anyone right now. If you believe that your friend is capable of caring, but does not care about you, perhaps you can ask what caused the change.

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love4 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

thats true, what ckmurra said. you should probably ask them about it. but if they still say they don’t, maybe they weren’t a true friend in the first place. everyone deserves to have friends who sincerely care about them.

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Chickapu12 offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

I agree. I think tht we’re just growing apart. We use to tell each other everything, then all of a sudden we barely talk.

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1 month, 2 weeks ago (33 minutes after post)

Thats why the saying goes friends come and friends go. Just find another friend who you bond better with so this wont happen in the future. Although its kind of hard to predict these things. Just be more cautious when picking your “true” friends

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Chickapu12 offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (39 minutes after post)

Thnxs. Will keep tht in mind!!!

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 37 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (46 minutes after post)

doesn’t sound like a good friend to me

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Chickapu12 offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

Thts the weird thing. She can honestly sometimes b the best friend ever. But then other times she isnt. We hav this on nd off friendship. Maybe its just time to not b friends for good.

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spiritedsoul offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 37 #
Sandgate, G5, GB | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 3 minutes after post)

sounds like she has her own issues to deal with which don’t relate to you, even though possibly you may feel that they do.

I agree with anonymous, find another friend who you can bond better with.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 month, 3 weeks) Shouts: 128 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 4 minutes after post)

You talk it out with that friend because maybe they’re going through a tough time or something…but if you cant fix it, then just move on…it’s all that we can do

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Chickapu12 offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

Yea we both r goin through things. it just all becomes really complicated after awhile. But i’ll definately try nd tlk to her bout it.

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