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I was viewing my sis’ emails and i found bad stuff she was sending to a boy.

they are always in fights and i recently found she sent a naked pic of herself to him what should i do shes only 11! tell my parents?

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SoulRising offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (0 minutes after post)

Yes, tell them now.

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Commander Ikari online Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 248 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Why were you spying?

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

11!?! WTH is she doing sending naked pics of herself. How old is this boy? And yes you need to tell your parents. She might hate you but you are only protecting her

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:
Why were you spying?

I was on my brothers facebook account spying today so i guess its normal lol. Thank goodness i didnt find anything

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Commander Ikari online Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 248 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

The age of the boy is what determines the severity. If the “boy” is twenty…

but if the boys the same age, it’s still wrong, but not as much.

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Commander Ikari online Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 248 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

skyy wrote:

Commander Ikari wrote:
Why were you spying?
I was on my brothers facebook account spying today so i guess its normal lol. Thank goodness i didnt find anything

Someones facebook is open to the world, someones email is not.

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shrinky_din offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

she’s 11??

thats a year older then my little sister. she still plays with dolls, man. What the **** is up with yours.

that’s so messed up. How old is her boyf?
tell your parents NOW before she totally ***** up her life. This kind of **** stays, she wont be able leave her reputation behind.

Tell. Them. Now. Provide evidence, so they do something about it. And get her to a ****** shrink.

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Miss Minnie offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (12 minutes after post)

Heyy… shrinky, what’s with all the swearing? She’s only trying to help her sis out!

I say have a good excuse for snooping when you tell your parents because your sister will get in a lot of trouble and then take it out on you.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (11 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

She’s 11?? That’s ridiculous! Tell your parents.

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shrinky_din offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

Putting in the ****s makes it look so much worse. It’s how i talk, express sickness, shocked, whatever else falls under the category of an 11 year old sending naked pics of herself on the internet.

i agree with singerinpurple. its rediculous, put in cleaner terms.
i say tell them right now. right this second.

are you telling them?

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js offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Cambridge, MA, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

ok ok i have a friend Jenna and she is 13 and she also sent pics of her boobs to her bf gross! anyways first you need to have a talk with your sister say i was surfing the weba and i found these naked pics of you or something like that honestly don’t tell your dad cause dads are really bad with that kind of things tell your mom if it gets worse
good luck:)

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Shes practically still in elementary just starting middle school. Im sorry but im just as shocked as shrinky and singer.

Where is the POSTER!?!? This is serious

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chev.jame offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (21 minutes after post)

Tell your parents. Your sister needs to learn that what she is doing is stupid and can come back to haunt her. She needs to learn this before real damage is done. That picture she sent could be uploaded to a child pornographer before you could blink. It’s behavior that needs to be nipped in the bud!

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Commander Ikari online Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 248 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

skyy wrote:
Where is the POSTER!?!? This is serious

I’m starting to think this is a troll trying to rile us up…

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shrinky_din offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

“dont tell your dad cause dads are really bad with that kind of things tell your mom if it gets worse”

- she is ELEVEN YRS OLD, Sending NAKED PICTURES of herself OVER THE INTERNET.
How much worse do you want it to get?!

Do you not understand that 13 and 11 are much different ages? her brain shouldnt even be thinking all these sensual thoughts. she should be learning her freakin’ times-tables, not gettin nasty over the internet. $10 says she hasnt even got her period yet.

13 is different, but its still a baby imitating a woman.

Tell your parents now, dont start all that secrecy bullshit. She’ll think shes awesome for getting away with it, get cocky and end up pregnent at 12. you gotta stop this now.

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 36 #
An Undisclosed Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (26 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:

skyy wrote:
Where is the POSTER!?!? This is serious
I’m starting to think this is a troll trying to rile us up…

Yea i think so too. If he/she was that concerned about their younger sister they wouldve responded by now. Unless they had to leave which i doubt…. Its more of a shock post than a help me post

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shrinky_din offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

Most likely. But it could happen. I’ve got 11 year olds like that where i live.

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2greeneyes offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
Midvale, UT, US | 11 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 3 minutes after post)

Troll alert!!

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