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Told a girl I have feelings for her.

Now she won’t talk to me!
What to do? I feel miserable.
Before I said anything we used to hangout - had a great time.
Now she won’t return my calls or respond to text messages.
I can’t take it.
I rarely find someone I really like. I like her alot. I feel frustrated.

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忍者™ offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 4 #
Jackson, MI, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (3 minutes after post)

Give her time to understand all this. Or mabey she’s worried cause she doesn’t know what to say.. In the mean time find a hobby that you would like to do.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

Dont worry mate weve all been there i told the girl i loved how i felt and we didnt alk for ages, then it seemed to get easier we started speaking became close again, then i asked her out she stopped talking again.

Just give her some time she will come round, you have probally got her thinking about how she fills about you

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

How much time?

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Jackson, MI, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (6 minutes after post)

Let her call or text or talk to you. Don’t bug her or you will lose her for good.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

=C

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (7 minutes after post)

Only she iwll know when it is right to talk to you, if you keep pushing her to try and talk again it could come out worse, so just keep your mind off of it and wait it will all sort itsel out in time

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

I hope so. Thanks.

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Jackson, MI, US | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

frustach that is what I just said.

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An Unknown Location | 5 months, 3 weeks ago (13 minutes after post)

Yup. Good advice I guess.

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An Undisclosed Location | 5 months, 2 weeks ago (11 hours, 28 minutes after post)

yea that sucks but you gave her something she didn’t deserve. read these posts they might help dude

http://help.com/post/181029-hey-you-n…

http://help.com/post/172966-attention…

http://help.com/post/172887-for-all-t…

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