i need some help…
i am a 16 year old girl n i live with my two parents n my little sister. i have an ok life but there are times when things need to change. lately things are really bad n its hurting me. my dad thinks i need to do everything for my sister. n i do. i make her appointments, i make sure she gets where she needs to go, i find ways to get her places, n i make sure she has food in her belly, n i help her with everything. n she is 15. i can handle my sister. when my mom is not around my dad is fun n helpful. he believes what i say n listens when i have a problem. he makes the money to pay the bills n the food. my mom recently had to get a job because she is in collage n my dad’s paycheck is not enough anymore. so they are both out of the house all day. n i am home with my sister all day. when my mom gets home she has homework or she watches tv n sometimes makes supper. my dad rests a bit then goes outside to work on things that need to be done. my mom normally has things for me to do during the day. i do everything she wants n sometimes more. my boyfreind comes over almost everyday about 130 n sometimes i have things done n sometimes i still have laundry. n he helps me with whatever i ask him 2 or i just tell him i am almost done n then me n him hang out. on the weekends me n my boyfiend hang out at his house or in town. but normally b4 i leave i do a few more chores. but my mom never thinks i do anything. she always yells at me for sitting on my *** all day. my dad will believe me if my mom is not around. yea wierd huh?. but that is how it works around here n its bogus! there is a day that happens after a week or two when i am pushed 2 my limit. yesterday was a day. i barely hit my mom. yes i did. n she attacked me. i have marks on my eyes n arms. i am too afraid to check anyplace else. yesterday i left because she told me to n i went were my dad told me to. but the funny thing was when my mom came back downstairs my dad got pissed about where i was going. the nite b4 i was at my boyfriends. i came home b4 they did n i was really tired n not feeling well. they pushed every button n i just went to my room. he made it seem like i was out of control that nite n told me if i ever came home like that again i would never go there again. last nite i was home 5 min b4 ten just like they wanted. i went to talk to my dad, tell him i was home n i made $15 helping my boyfreinds family. that was last nite. there are days me n my mom yell at eachother. she likes to tell herself that there is nothing wrong with her n i judge her all the time n i am a selfish b**ch. i really think she is crazy. i think she needs to get help. but i know she wont. she told me to get some help about ten months ago because i was suicidal. she never liked the help i was getting n after 8 months of help i had to stop n i will be going in for a check up in november. i was told that i just needed to work on coping skills n learn to breath when angry. i have been doing well but that is me n my boyfriend. he has been there for me every step of the way for 17 months. n his family for about 2 months. i want to know what are some ideas i could do. i dont like coming home, i dont like being with my mom when we are home. i cant talk to my mom. what should i do? n my dad cant help me because my mom is so controlling. help me please.
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