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okay, so i like the same guy as my best friend.

she likes him a lot, and so do i.
i never told her who i liked, because i was afraid of her reaction. i’ve debated over whether or not to tell the truth or just make up someone, if she ever did ask me who i liked.
i really like this boy, and she’s my best friend in the whole wide world, i cannot stress these two enough, and it’s a long story, but i think that i have a chance with him, and she doesn’t really. any advice?

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AshleyAnemia. (: offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Do ittt.
If she’s your best friend; she’ll understand you decision.

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funnaygirl12 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

i dated the guy my friend liked but i didnt know she liked him so your better off telling her

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Bela offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

before i starting dating my now ex…her bff liked me alot too. but i wasnt insteaded in “nicole” her best friend…i was interested in “sara.” even though they were both very similar in personalities and they were both gorgeous….so ya its either he likes you or her or maybe neither. just find out. talk to him. see what he has to say..because “nicole” talked to me…and i told her that no i liked “sara”…she moved on…so will your friend. easy as that

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iluvmuzicxoxo offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (14 minutes after post)

just talk to her and ask her about it. tell her b/c shez like ur bff so she’ll understand that u dont want 2 hurt her feelings and ur asking her so that she won’t get hurt. =]

good luck!!

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downman1 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 hours, 10 minutes after post)

how did that happen.
1.)what best describes him a or b is he a A. sweet guy or is B.confident guy?

2.)does he feel the same?
3.)are you best friends?
4.)do both of your other friends overlap?
5.)has he been flirting with you recently?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 hours, 24 minutes after post)

i think you should tell her, else youll never get your guy and itll kill you if she does….

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downman1 offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

**** it thought anon was a chick sorry

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An Unknown Location | 11 months ago (5 months, 1 week after post)

dont tell her anything if she is your best friend!!guys keep coming an dgoing but friends are forever!!just try to move on…or try to get your friend move on!!

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