Love help: hey erm… im 13 and this mite sound a little stupid but i realy love my boyfriend and im scared of loosing him!

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hey erm…

im 13 and this mite sound a little stupid but i realy love my boyfriend and im scared of loosing him! i asked him how long he thinks we will be together and he said i duno i dont think too long though. this made me realy upset. every day i am scared that he might dump me for someone better… im not exactly perfect… i moan a bit and we always have arguments!
please help i dont know what i would do without him
how can i keep him?
thanks xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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Twineffly 0 #
Philippine, 10, PH | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

don’t be scared to lose him that happens always in life sometimes we fid the right person at the right time he might not be the one but I know that every love in your life is worth the time..

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Philippine, 10, PH | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

that was *find sorry ..

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1 year, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Thanks… thats realy helpful :) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

You have to live every moment being willing to risk everything you have. That’s what lifes all about.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

your still young so you shouldent take it too seriously, and if hes saying it wont last forever then of course hes right nothing lasts forever and thats all part of life growing up and changing(life would be so boring if nothing ever changed!).. but just dont worry about it, have fun when you can and try to avoid arguements! I’m sure if you both really like each other itll be a good run! just live for now! and the more fun you are the more fun he’ll be trust me!!

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1 year, 4 months ago (12 minutes after post)

thanks so much thats realy helped me :P xxxxxxxxxxx

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (35 minutes after post)

you are only 13 yrs old….there is so much more life ahead of you and although you feel like you love him and couldnt possible live without him…trust me sweetie you can….he might be your first love but he’s not your true love…you will find your true love as you get older….have you ever thought that there might also be a guy out there better for you than him…Don’t ever doubt yourself…at that age any guy is gonna find someone different…not neccasary better but you guys are so young and guys have very short attention spands…please do not think that you will be with him forever …at 13 it’s unrealizalist! just enjoy the time you have now with him!

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Paxton, MA, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

just use this motto- “why chase em, when you can replace em” theres always gonna be someone better out there for you, who actually wants to be with you for a long time. youre only 13, your gonna have more loves coming your way :).

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1 year, 4 months ago (14 hours, 3 minutes after post)

You should definitely “loose” him, because it’s not nice to keep your boyfriend tied up!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 weeks, 5 days after post)

Hey, if you wanna talk to me use yahoo messenger, i dont use my email boxes.
Hi, im Zac, 13 yrs old, virginia, male.
but just ask him why, if he doesnt want you for you, leave him, it hurts like the wrath of god, but its better, ive not apreciated a girl before and im the one that got stung, your not losing if he breaks, he is.
if he likes you for you, just try your best to get along, if it becomes to strained you mite as well drift.

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Anonymous #
1 year, 3 months ago (3 weeks, 6 days after post)

thanks so much everyone… but the thing is he broke up with me last saturday… he said he didnt want a girlfriend :(… i appreciate all of your help though! thanks a lot! xxxxxxx

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