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~ You can’t tell a book by its cover ~

One hot summer day, as the sun beat down upon me from a clear blue sky, I found myself walking along a small stream. The dragonflies danced over the surface of the water and occasionally a trout would spring from the depths trying to catch an early lunch. It was a good day and the worries of my world had been left some where behind me. I was sure I would find them on my way back, but for now it was good to not have them with me.

As I walked, a glimmer of light from the stream caught my eye and attention. I could not quite make out what caused such a thing, but my curiosity got the better of me. So, taking off my shoes and socks, rolling up my pants so they would not get wet, I stepped into the water. I was surprised at how cold it was, on such a hot day. I sat there on the banks for a moment enjoying the different temperatures of nature. I could feel the sweat running down the back of my neck with the noon day sun beating down upon me, while my feet were enjoying the coolness of the water.

I stood and headed over to the glimmering light. I bent down and picked it up from out of the water, and what did I find; it was just an old piece of broken glass. No treasure worthy of finding or worth a million. Just an old broken bottle that had been polished by years of water running over it. Strangely it did not glimmer in my hand. All I felt was its coolness and smoothness. I returned it to its place in the stream and went back to the bank. When I looked back, I was surprised to see it shining back at me again.

I left the river bank, carrying my shoes; I headed back toward my worries. But my heart was lighter as I thought about the glimmer of a simple piece of broken glass.

~*~

In days gone by, our ancient elders would teach with a story. It has been said that the shortest way to a human being and the truth is a story. Jesus understood this, and often taught in parable. Now I am not saying I am a Master, but what did you learn from my story? What truth touched your heart?

Bright blessings ~ Richard

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steff offline Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 98 #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

I makes me think of how people will shine most when they are where they are meant to be…when they are in there element.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (16 minutes after post)

cool! thanks

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Ballinteer, 07, IE | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (44 minutes after post)

Well, the glass from a bottle, it’s rightful place, in terms of it’s purpose for creation, is not in a stream. And I’m sure the river was just as surprised to have a piece of glass in it. So I think the your title for the post was on the money. Hmm, so, two pieces of matter that would never be associated with one another coming together and producing an excellent result is the… substance? To this story, and perhaps the moral is, or could be phrased in a way, sometimes in being out of place, you are in the best place for you. Or, for every unlikely couple there’s an unlikely compliment, hehe, that sounds good more then it makes sense :p I dunno, there’s my 2cents…

Cosmic Fool offline Verified User (3 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 28 minutes after post)

I saw it on 3 or 4 levels.

Firstly, as has been said, the glass is out of its element as it were, yet it still shines. So you can’t tell if a situation is right for you until you find yourself in it. Similary a person might find themselves in an un-natural situation, yet it turns out to bring out the best in them. In this case the glass, used to life as a bottle, has found itself in a river, and yet it is doing very well, shining infact.

The second level was sparked by your description of the glass. It was smooth, “polished by years of water running over it”. And now it shines. So what that told me was it takes a lot of refining and improving to become a “shining example” to others; to be the person you want to be, or to live the life you want to live. Its by no means a quick process. But even something as insignificant as a mere glass bottle has the means to acheive. A tale of perseverance, of hope.

But by taking the glass out of the water, it ceased to shine. So there is an undertone of “fate”, even the best laid plans can fail due to the unforeseen actions of others. I see this as a warning: Appreiciate what you have, because you wont have it forever.
*But*, and a big but, hope is not lost. Because when you returned the glass, it shone once more. Nothing is gone forever, you can recover from the bad turns life may take.

Finally, there is the lightness in your heart following the whole thing. You found no treasure; it was mere glass. Yet you saw the good in it, and took happiness from that. To many it would be an insigificant, instantly forgettable experience, yet you allowed the shining glass to touch your heart, and change you for the better.
The moral for me: See the good in life, and take solice in the simple things. Open your heart, and happiness will find you, albeit in forms you may never have considered.

I’ll stop there because I feel I’ve given plenty of food for thought! A very interesting, and once again thought provoking post. Kudos Richard =)

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 31 minutes after post)

The story seems to me about letting go of things, so that you can deal with them in general. Like stopping to smell the flowers, I think it’s about gaining strength from beauty. At least that’s what I got out of it.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 32 minutes after post)

Memories like icons for certain states of mind, that keep me going. I think of when my son was a newborn, this one time he caught my eye from down the hospital corridor, so intensely even though we were not near each other. The ocean and sky is always in the back of my mind, and this one time at a party when eveyone was so uplifted we were almost in a trance. A friend of mine was dancing on the stage, and some great energy was shifting above the crowd. I’m always there in the back of my mind.

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Richard cor de lyon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours after post)

I am loving your truths :) I will share mine later, but first I hope to read more from others.

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name with no face offline Verified User (11 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Warminster, PA, US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

that richard like shiny things… see in the old day,,, they would teach with stories, but the story was supposed to convey something specific… if the audience got the wrong message then they missed the point of the story… this, however, seems more like a none teaching story where the meaning is left up to audience. i mean i got that the point was not to judge by appearances,,, but the story didn’t really involve too much of that… there was no weight placed on judgment, you saw something shiny, picked i up, it turned out to be a broken piece of glass, you put it back, and walked away. the details of the story were pretty and nice, but didn’t leave any real messages… the only part that really stuck out was that it was strange that it didn’t reflect in your hand… (water makes glass more reflective) but there was no message in it, more of an open ended, what do you think about the strangeness, posed question. so comparing this to teaching through story isn’t really right… becuase whatever is learned will not have come from the story, but from ones self… its more like asking a question through story… or perhaps it would be best to compare it to a poem, or painting. there isn’t really a lesson to be learned, but it does send a message… this is likely the least offensive and my favorite post by you…. very nice story richard…

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (3 hours, 15 minutes after post)

Well..

You cant judge a person on how they appear or react with the first contact with you.

A persons apparent personality can be shaped in many ways by the soundings they live in, work in, or socialise in.

What you see on the searface in not always if ever what is underneath.

That is one reason why lust is confused for love.

In time your worst emay can be your best friend.

It is up to you to be open minded and be willing to see the person below.

That is what I have seen in this parable…is that the right word.

Still that’s me.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (5 hours, 48 minutes after post)

Nice story Richard.

That there is always hope. The light is always shining, somewhere. There is beauty in all things natural:) and sometimes manmade. Soul:)

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (11 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Well first let me say that it was a nice bedtime story for me and it made me relax. Thank you for that.
Now you’re asking me to think… ok…

If you had known that what you saw there shining in the water was nothing but a simple piece of broken glass, you never would have stopped by, sat there and enjoyed that peaceful moment in time.

What it makes me think of is that you should never underestimate the importance and value of another human being. You never know who could end up saving your life or shining the light on your darkest moment.

Yep! That’s what I’m getting out of it. Maybe your meaning is exactly the opposite. I don’t know. But it doesn’t matter.
It was a really nice relaxing moment for me before going to bed and I want to thank you for that, Richard.

:) :)

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (12 hours, 22 minutes after post)

In the parable of the good Samaritan, the listeners are left with a question, “Which of these was his neighbor?” It begs the answer.. the one who had mercy on him. When a woman who had been caught cheating on her husband was brought before Jesus, he scribbled in the dirt, then told whoever was without sin to cast the first stone. And they tucked their tails between their legs and slunk away like the hypocrites they were.

Many of you know I’m not big on taking the Bible literally, but these were powerful lessons that spiritual souls of all religions get.. care for the needy, don’t judge others. Sometimes a teacher conveys their lesson more emphatically and eloquently by asking a question that requires the student to actually THINK, instead of just memorizing, parroting or agreeing.

Richard asked, “What did you learn? What part touched your heart?” Two lessons in one, an intellectual and an ethical. Then, as in those gimmick commercials, “But wait, if you order now, you’ll also get..” You’ll also get to be the teacher, because Richard did not align the sun’s rays, the water’s depth, the reflectivity of the glass or the angle of his approach, God did, or the Universe did, if you will. And we, little cosmic variables that we are, get to interact like the rest of nature.

Anyone in need of a direct lesson can take this away.. be careful when wading in a stream; you could cut your foot on an old piece of glass.

I for one have never been offended by any of your posts, Richard.

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (12 hours, 34 minutes after post)

I didn’t know there was a quiz at the end of this…

I suppose my level of understanding was that originally a bit of greed overtook the man as he thought he was going to find treasure… But disappointment came over him when he realized it wasn’t treasure. I think after he saw it shining back he realized it was indeed treasure, but treasure that could only be seen from a distance. Much like the lives of men specifically in today’s world. Now please don’t be offended I am only using the following as an example.

Many people want to immigrate to the US especially hispanics. This reminds me of the story, they see the treasure from afar and it is amazing, but once they come to get it they see that it is disappointing. Not all that they had hoped or expected. If they were to leave the US however they would once again see its splendor.

Thank you Richard.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (17 hours after post)

Loved this Richard.

I think it teaches us an important lesson that, as your title says. You cant tell a book by its cover.

It could be worth so much more. Yet the man put it back and judged it based on what he could see.

I feel it is our true selves that are only there to be judged. Not our initial first appearances.

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Richard cor de lyon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (23 hours, 4 minutes after post)

First I want to thank you all for replying to this post. It was wonderful to read your truth. Second I want to reiterate that I am no Master, so my story of course could / should not be compared to a Messianic parable. However many people find meaning in reading Dr. Suess or Winnie the Pooh; I actually quoted Milner in my book.

When Jesus started telling his parables, it marked a transition in spiritual teaching. From the days of Moses, we were told exactly what we would and would not believe in. Of course the 10 Commandments are the perfect example. But Jesus wanted his followers to think for themselves. He did not often tell the masses what his stories meant. He allowed them to find their own truth. Were it not for him telling his apostles what the stories meant, we too would be forced to find our own truths. And isn’t that what is most important anyway. The truth that lay inside you.

I loved your replies and you are all correct. You are correct because that is your truth, and no one… NO ONE can say that it is wrong. To me the story speaks on several levels… and you all shined other light on it for me too (and I wrote the dang thing). To me the story says, no matter how broken we are, no matter how many years have swept over us… no matter how ‘out of place’ we might feel - We can still give joy to another. We can still shine. The story also talked of expectations to me. No matter what our expectations are in life, we don’t have to always be let down. The man went into the stream expecting to find something of value, and found polished glass. Yet as he walked away, he realized that what he did gain, the peace and comfort of the stream and the beauty of a simple piece of polished glass, and that was valuable too.

But I reiterate… this is my truth… and your truth is wonderful too.

Bright blessings all ~ Richard

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Marylou online Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 31 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

Isn’t it incredible how everyone can look at the same thing and see it totally differently from the next person? It makes me wonder how we manage to communicate on this website or anywhere else, for that matter.
It can also explain all of the misunderstandings that occur between well intentioned individuals.

Wow! Life is amazing!
We’ll never be able to grasp it all!

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An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

the fact that we all interpreted this post differently and got to read all the interpretations may of been Richards objective…

If so, I like his approach…

If not, I still like the post…..

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Richard cor de lyon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 96 #
An Undisclosed Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (1 day after post)

LOL… thanks Sophie. I certainly did want to see everyone’s response. That’s why I waited to respond until now. Gibran wrote; “Don’t say ‘I found the truth’, say rather ‘I found A truth walking along my path’”. I do believe in Universal truths, but the personal internal truth exists as well, and the joy of that is the diversity. Maybe we can look at personal truth as a broken bottle. Fragments of the whole (universal truth) yet by itself it can still sparkle and bring joy.

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nikko offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 32 #
US | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (2 days, 8 hours after post)

Always a pleasure Richard and I do owe you an email. Thanks for caring about so many. What I got was the beauty of personal truth and experience. Hey, at least he found something that gave him joy, even though it was not what he expected. Sometimes what we think we want/need isn’t always the best thing for us.

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Den Haag, 11, NL | 2 months, 1 week ago (1 week, 2 days after post)

I think the fact that you put it back says a lot about who you are. My mother would have taken it with her to examplify the story, I would have thrown it in the glass bin, but you left it there - why? For others to find or so you would know it was there?

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An Unknown Location | 2 months ago (2 weeks after post)

…well maybe the glass in my situation is my love, glimmering as it may be..maybe i should let it go and my own heart will be lighter..

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