Love help: I met this nice girl, we really get along and she is caring and loving, have no reason at all not to like her, but here is the whole mess now.

tmuddz

I met this nice girl, we really get along and she is caring and loving, have no reason at all not to like her, but here is the whole mess now.

I got in contact with my ex we started talking and we seem to really enjoy each other a lot, me and my ex we never broke up, we lost contact for years because l had to move to another country, but we loved each other and we were in love with each other, l never thought we will get in contact again so l just moved on and l didnt loose the feelings that l had for her. Now lm back in love with my ex and she feels the same way, but l have this girl in my life and l dont want to tell her whats going on , bcoz l know this will destroy her, she is really a nice person and l dont want to hurt her, but the truth is l dont love her as much as l do my ex, l was starting to slowly fall in love with her but all this changed when l got in contact with my ex. So please any advice that will work out for the best of everybody?

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Chameleon 1,053 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (7 minutes after post)

Be honest with the new gf. It’s not fair to lead her on like this. Just let her down as gently as you can.

potatobreadrules 24 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (8 minutes after post)

Chameleon wrote:
Be honest with the new gf. It’s not fair to lead her on like this. Just let her down as gently as you can.

that’s really all you can do.

tmuddz 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (12 minutes after post)

l know thats excatly what l should do, but l know its eaier said than done, but u r all right, but im really worried about her

Dragon_Lady 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (16 minutes after post)

Just sit her down, and tell her thw whole truth. She’s more likely to be mad as hell than really hurt right now.

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Chameleon 1,053 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (18 minutes after post)

The longer you wait the harder it will be and the more it will hurt her.

tmuddz 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (21 minutes after post)

have to be honest, dont really have the guts, but l will try to figure out something

Niffy 0 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (40 minutes after post)

I don’t think you need to tell her that you’re in love with someone else…sometimes it’s better to not tell the whole truth.

Tzubake 218 #
An Unknown Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (43 minutes after post)

I agree with Chameleon. You need to be honest with this new, wonderful girl and if she is as great as you say, she’ll understand.

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lynne 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 weeks, 1 day ago (3 hours after post)

Well, I agree with Niffy. Sometimes it is better not to tell the WHOLE truth. Something like that could really destroy a person..at least for a little while. Really..it’s pretty bad that you were talking to your ex while still with the new girl. That’s pretty lame, but I see that you realize that.

Either way you’re going to break her heart, but try not to crush the pieces into the ground too far by telling her you’re madly in love with someone else.

Just because she’s a wonderful girl doesn’t mean she will not get upset and hurt about it. She’s only human.

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