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I really need help right now, and this seems the only place i can go.

i am a very easy person. i can be presuaded easily, and doint get my way. ill do anything anybody else wants to do, almost never what i want to do. my cousin, matt, is “the bossy-i dont have it my way ill hate you-always gets his way” kind of kid, and hes a senior in highschool. me, thomas, devon, ryan, and spencer are all sophmores and their lal friends of mine. now, my friends met matt at halo partys (partys we’d have playin the hao series) yea, sounds kind of dumb. but thats where they met them. now, me and my friends also have a series on youtube (youtube.com/thedumbassgroup) where we do stupid things. i enjoy that alot. ever since about, 2 weeks ago, matt has been getting too involved, taking my friends, getting in my life. whatever you call it. i really dont like him. now, my other friend, trenton is in 8th grade middle school. he has a bunch of friends i can hang out with, but i dont know, because they dont really like doing our youtube thing. i still want to do our youtube thing with devon, ryan, thomas, spancer, and i, bt i dont want matt in it, which hes inviting himself in. if you go to our page, we have some videos. one of them is the shady ninja, and thats matt. he came up with it by himself, and sort of makes us put it on youtube. i was at devons house a few days ago. it was me, ryan, devon, nate (my bro) and trevor (devons bro) he had a chicken suit, and i decided i could be the chicken, and matt could be a ninja. everybody seemed to agree. so, we fimled alot wth the chicken and ninja that day. now, last night, i slept at devons. we played xbox live (i took matt off my friends list) and woke up the next day. i went home around 4:00, after matt sending devon a picture over live of him, spencer, ryan and thas flicking us all off. when i got back to my house, i started edit a few videos we made. half way through the second one, matt calls. i ask him, ‘where are you?’ ‘devons.’ he replies. ‘its me, ryan, spencer and devon, cause thomas had to go home at four.’ i as khim, ‘wel why didnt you call me? whend you leave?’ ‘oh, we dd call you/ nobody awnsered. we got hereabout 4:30, 5. oh, and ryan is the chicken now. hes alot better then you.’ ‘..what the hell dude?’ ‘what? im the ninja, ryans the chicken, spencers going to be s army dude, and devons an old guy.’ ‘well what am i going to be matt?’ i hear talking in the backround of them suggesting clown, an old lady, and a bunch of others. then devon got on the phone. ‘devon, what the ****. you know i dont like mattt, and i know you dont like matt.’ ‘well they just came over, so we went to the park, ryan was the chicken and he got a bunch of waves, high-fives and pictures.’ ‘OF COURSE HE IS! HES A ******* CHICKEN!!’ ‘yea, but we’ve decided hes alot better then you at it. here, talk to spencer.’ then i heard, ‘hello, ok bye.’ and got hung up on. i know matts behind all of this, because it seems hes jsut out to **** my life over. he almost stole my gf away from me last year, and doesnt seem to have any friends of his own in his own grade. probally because hes so bossy, and self-cetered. i really dont want matt at devons with all of them, because i know theyll get to attached and eventually ditch me for matt. trenton, (the 8th grader) offered to call me tomorrow when he goes to the skate park, so we can bike. i dont know what to do. i want to continue biking, and get better, but i have a problem with matt, and want to keep doing youtube things with my buddys. also my girlfriends giving me the silent treatment, but im going to try and build the courage to dump her. and yes, im only 14, turning 15 in august, but i dont know what to do! my moms gone, andmy dad couldnt give a **** if it saved my life. i really need advice right now, and it seems im going to have to find new people to hang out with soon, (and thats almost impossible in high school) -EDIT- matt just stopped by my house with ryan, and asked me to go to the pool with him, ryan, devon, and spencer dressed up in their costumes. but i still dont have one, and ill be stuck recording them. i’d rather go to the skatepark then the pool, but id rather hang out with devon, ryan and spencer (at the pool) then trenton (at the skatepark), but matt is with ryan, spencer, and devon.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Your brother is a senior…stick it out…just get new friends if the old ones don’t respect your boundaries…you might wanna talk to your brother about this and tell him to back off…also, don’t post the video of matt on youtube if you all didn’t agree on it…well good luck!

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Opa Locka, FL, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (45 minutes after post)

dude your pretty insecure, if your friends like you for who you really are then just keep on being that man, your friends wont dithc you for another person i guarentee it unless you start acting different, keep on being yourself and for the most part just let matt be and you go your own way.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

this isthe first time im letting things out. it always used to be, when something would happen, i’d hold it in, but im now starting to talk to people.

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animalstuffing edited this post 1 year, 4 months ago. Read the previous text »

I really need help right now, and this seems the only place i can go. i am a very easy person. i can be presuaded easily, and doint get my way. ill do anything anybody else wants to do, almost never what i want to do. my cousin, matt, is “the bossy-i dont have it my way ill hate you-always gets his way” kind of kid, and hes a senior in highschool. me, thomas, devon, ryan, and spencer are all sophmores and their lal friends of mine. now, my friends met matt at halo partys (partys we’d have playin the hao series) yea, sounds kind of dumb. but thats where they met them. now, me and my friends also have a series on youtube (youtube.com/thedumbassgroup) where we do stupid things. i enjoy that alot. ever since about, 2 weeks ago, matt has been getting too involved, taking my friends, getting in my life. whatever you call it. i really dont like him. now, my other friend, trenton is in 8th grade middle school. he has a bunch of friends i can hang out with, but i dont know, because they dont really like doing our youtube thing. i still want to do our youtube thing with devon, ryan, thomas, spancer, and i, bt i dont want matt in it, which hes inviting himself in. if you go to our page, we have some videos. one of them is the shady ninja, and thats matt. he came up with it by himself, and sort of makes us put it on youtube. i was at devons house a few days ago. it was me, ryan, devon, nate (my bro) and trevor (devons bro) he had a chicken suit, and i decided i could be the chicken, and matt could be a ninja. everybody seemed to agree. so, we fimled alot wth the chicken and ninja that day. now, last night, i slept at devons. we played xbox live (i took matt off my friends list) and woke up the next day. i went home around 4:00, after matt sending devon a picture over live of him, spencer, ryan and thas flicking us all off. when i got back to my house, i started edit a few videos we made. half way through the second one, matt calls. i ask him, ‘where are you?’ ‘devons.’ he replies. ‘its me, ryan, spencer and devon, cause thomas had to go home at four.’ i as khim, ‘wel why didnt you call me? whend you leave?’ ‘oh, we dd call you/ nobody awnsered. we got hereabout 4:30, 5. oh, and ryan is the chicken now. hes alot better then you.’ ‘..what the hell dude?’ ‘what? im the ninja, ryans the chicken, spencers going to be s army dude, and devons an old guy.’ ‘well what am i going to be matt?’ i hear talking in the backround of them suggesting clown, an old lady, and a bunch of others. then devon got on the phone. ‘devon, what the ****. you know i dont like mattt, and i know you dont like matt.’ ‘well they just came over, so we went to the park, ryan was the chicken and he got a bunch of waves, high-fives and pictures.’ ‘OF COURSE HE IS! HES A ******* CHICKEN!!’ ‘yea, but we’ve decided hes alot better then you at it. here, talk to spencer.’ then i heard, ‘hello, ok bye.’ and got hung up on. i know matts behind all of this, because it seems hes jsut out to **** my life over. he almost stole my gf away from me last year, and doesnt seem to have any friends of his own in his own grade. probally because hes so bossy, and self-cetered. i really dont want matt at devons with all of them, because i know theyll get to attached and eventually ditch me for matt. trenton, (the 8th grader) offered to call me tomorrow when he goes to the skate park, so we can bike. i dont know what to do. i want to continue biking, and get better, but i have a problem with matt, and want to keep doing youtube things with my buddys. also my girlfriends giving me the silent treatment, but im going to try and build the courage to dump her. and yes, im only 14, turning 15 in august, but i dont know what to do! my moms gone, andmy dad couldnt give a **** if it saved my life. i really need advice right now, and it seems im going to have to find new people to hang out with soon, (and thats almost impossible in high school) contact me via youtube.com/thedumbassgroup, myspace.com/blindretard, KILLJOY982 on xbox live, or (email removed) on email, or just post as reply, but i need it badly, im hanging by my balls about to fall 6 feet under

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Opa Locka, FL, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 hours, 37 minutes after post)

Thats good man regardless you should build some self esteem, and friends come and go man

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