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I am really lonely.

What is the best way to meet people? I like intelligent people, and no creeps (so no bars and such, I’m not old enough anyway). But, I’m shy, so I’d need an excuse to talk to people. So, what places are social in nature that I can meet people in? Any suggestions? (I’m a girl, don’t care what gender really. Just looking for a friend)

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*Chatty_Cassie* offline Verified User (2 months, 3 weeks) Shouts: 495 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

i dont know to really meet people but im kinda shy to, i find my friends at school, really i just listen to peoples convo.s (im kinda nosey too (=C)) and pare them up with what my personality is like… ill be your friend! its ok with me you can add me!

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Starlight offline Verified User (10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Halifax, NS, CA | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Here!!!! =D
This site is great for meeting new people!
I’m sure you’ll find lots of friends on this site.
happy hunting ;)

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kanneybby offline Verified User (7 months, 3 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
Sacramento, CA, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

School sounds like a very big option. :)
If you get really involved, like in clubs and whatnot.
Then you’ll get around to a lot of people.

I would say the mall as well.
But you can never trust too many people these days.
Haha

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Devil_on_Earth offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 288 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (35 minutes after post)

this site is just one big chat room i guess lol. we will all be ur friends lol :)

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pahoua10yan offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 49 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (42 minutes after post)

this is a great site..just come n talk to anyone u like n i also feel so lonely too…but when i can here n found this at google(thanks to google i found this today) and everyone is really friendly too..

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Devil_on_Earth offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 288 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (47 minutes after post)

My cousin foreverfreckled told me about this site today as well…welcome to help.com pahoua10yan! hehe

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pahoua10yan offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 49 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (48 minutes after post)

Devil_on_Earth wrote:
My cousin foreverfreckled told me about this site today as well…welcome to help.com pahoua10yan! hehe

thanks

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Devil_on_Earth offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 288 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

haha many ppl here on help.com are nutters!

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Dan TL offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 342 #
La Mirada, CA, US | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

I’ve been in the hung for a very long time. Still no leads but I now some great places.
You say intellectual people heres what I’d recommend.
Library- the place of knowledge itself
Music shows- Many people enjoy music its fun and expressive
Local Events- like carnivals, fairs and things of that nature.
Museums- find a museum that you like and go there you should find people who have a common interest.

Thats to name a few good places now the real challenge is how to approach a person which is what I still can’t figure out.

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hockeymaniac500 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 12 minutes after post)

Devil_on_Earth wrote:
haha many ppl here on help.com are nutters!

Oooh Oooh!!! Pick me!! me me me me!!! haha just kidding, but you will love it here, I do dan does, sans, felicity, there are way to many to list, just be yourself, hide nothing and you will fit in perfect.

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Devil_on_Earth offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 288 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 14 minutes after post)

Exactly! lol
I used my friends account to look around on here and man, this place is awesome

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hockeymaniac500 offline Verified User (6 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

“pst som, I know who has your little friend.”

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Devil_on_Earth offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 288 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

I tried, but I guess ur mushroom friend loves the devil! lol
Just imagine a happy thought…you can fly, you can fly, you can fly! Wait, that is Peter Pan…

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Devil_on_Earth offline Verified User (1 month, 2 weeks) Shouts: 288 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 29 minutes after post)

Somewhere, over the rainbow, way up high.
There’s a land that I heard of Once in a lullaby.
Somewhere, over the rainbow, skies are blue.
And the dreams that you dare to dream
Really do come true.
Someday I’ll wish upon a star and wake up where the clouds are far Behind me.
Where troubles melt like lemon drops, Away above the chimney tops.
That’s where you’ll find me.
Somewhere, over the rainbow, bluebirds fly. Birds fly over the rainbow,
Why then - oh, why can’t I?
If happy little bluebirds fly beyond the rainbow,
Why, oh, why can’t I?

I am guessing he is somewhere over the rainbow. ;D
maybe you can fly there to him!

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Chip offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Calgary, AB, CA | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (1 hour, 39 minutes after post)

In my first year in University I was looking for some new friends, and I got them, even though I am not very sociable and generally a cold person. How?

I joined a club with a smaller number of members. Whats more, is that I then became an executive in said club to get myself out there and force myself to interact with new people.

So join groups, put yourself into positions where you have to talk to people. Get a job in a social setting. Join a club. Play a sport.

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