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Do I stay or do I go?

My girlfriend is leaving her husband and I was leaving due to that sole reason… I mean what do I do now? I already booked the flight and I told her today and tonight now he’s moving out… What do I believe???

** She wasn’t living with him when I met her. We moved in together. Things went sour when I had to leave for a job. We broke it off and she went back with him. They live together. I was going to leave state and stay away for good over such. Even stopped seeing her, now I told her I was leaving. And suddenly he’s moving out… And she’s saying it was something already in the works…

I don’t think that sort of thing just happens… But maybe I’m wrong… Gah love sucks.

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babacup offline Verified User (7 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
Indianapolis, IN, US | 1 month, 1 week ago (5 minutes after post)

I say go and don’t look back.

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c-eek online Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (9 minutes after post)

I am trying to understand. Are you a man who has a married girlfriend? If that is the case, I would fly as planned. Why would you even consider building a relationship with a woman who would cheat on her husband. If she would cheat on him, she would cheat on you.

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Chameleon offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 768 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (11 minutes after post)

Or is he flying to be with her? :/ I’m confused altogether…

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Anonymous edited this post 1 month, 1 week ago. Read the previous text »

Do I stay or do I go? My girlfriend is leaving her husband and I was leaving due to that sole reason… I mean what do I do now? I already booked the flight and I told her today and tonight now he’s moving out… What do I believe???

Chameleon offline Verified User (2 months, 1 week) Shouts: 768 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (21 minutes after post)

Well if he’s really moving out you could drive by her place and see if he is, right?

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Mas1st offline Verified User (5 months, 2 weeks) Help.com Volunteer Moderator Long Term User Shouts: 731 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 11 minutes after post)

I think she is lying to you so she can keep her options open - Get on the plane and plaster a big smile on your face. Talk to strangers, drink cocktails, just get your happiness back. If you dont use that ticket you will suffer from the ‘What If’ syndrome for the rest of your life. Bon voyage - Mas

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c-eek online Verified User (4 months, 1 week) Long Term User Shouts: 41 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 month, 1 week ago (1 hour, 19 minutes after post)

How long were you gone on that job?

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