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Boyfriend help.

My bf and i have been on and off for about 2 years now, and things have been great these past few months. We’re long distance and I just spent a lot of money to go and see him. He came back to my town the next week but i didnt even get to see him once..conflicting work scheduales etc. But now hes back home and ignoring my IM’s, phone calls etc. One of my friends asked me about another guy yesterday, said she heard we were hanging out. To my disbelief i wasjust like whatt? I have a bf. I think this must have got back to him and this is the reason for the cold shoulder. What should i do? Theres no point n trying to communicate to him, hes just not going to.. PS this guy I’m apparently hangin out with i went to a movie with, Batman, with other friends, it just doesnt make sense to me at all…

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 minutes after post)

You went to the movie while your boyfriend was in town?

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1 year, 4 months ago (20 minutes after post)

You need to get a hold of him. Miscommunication always conflict a long distance relationship. Believe me, I know. Mine is on the other side and three hours ahead from my time.

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island girl* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 hours, 58 minutes after post)

Chameleon wrote:
You went to the movie while your boyfriend was in town?

No no, after he left and just with a bunch of friends!

!#$crystal!#$ wrote:
well try to contact him and tell him what happened because if you dont even try he might think its true like call him and leave him a message expaining it so he dosnt think you dont care

and i did but he wont give me anything? its soo weirdd

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