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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

Have you told “Kat” how this secret is effecting you? Maybe ask her to hurry up and fix the situation (either stop seeing him or have him break up with his gf) so you don’t have to carry this secret anymore?

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*Dorien* TTYL offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

It sounds like you’re in one of those situations If you tell one friend; Then the other friend would be mad. I’ve been in this situation to many times to count, and I’ve learned that the best way to stay out of it is just not to say anything.

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Reverend Twitch offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

i got bombed with those freshman year, i hate them!
stupid drama..

i just finally learned its best to keep your mouth shut and pretend you dont know a thing.

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AngelaJoy. offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Fort Lauderdale, FL, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (41 minutes after post)

i think you should keep it to yourself for now, but if it’s a huge problem for you, you should tell your friend ‘kat’ how you feel about the secret, and too see that happens from there.

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Narcissus edited this post 1 year, 3 months ago. Read the previous text »

My friends boy friend

Is cheating on her for my other friend(and that friends is kind of my leader I’m like her sidekick lets call her Kat ), I know because she told me …

But I’m loyal friend I would never betray my friend especially my leader …..

so if I say anything to my to my friend about what…. Kat and what she is doing its like im betraying Kat ..but if I don’t say anything its like im betraying …my friend …..

And I have a real problem making decisions …..

I tell kat everything in way she has become one of my best friends and she stood by me and didn’t betray …..but so was my other friend well we used to be best friends but we don’t talk as much anymore… she betrayed me but I forgave her …. she just told everyone at school a big secret about me but still, im loyal to my friends

What should I do ….

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