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NO !!!!! I look for you , don’t let them make you upset ….take a deep breath ………….RELAX !!!!!

no, don’t do that.
i know how it is to get treated like ****.
your mom’s the child, not you.
you tell your grandma that your mom took your money.
technically, she stole it.
tell your whole family.
that is not fair at all.
my suggestion is just stay the hell away from your mom.
ignore her completely.
if she says something to you, give her simple, one-worded answers with no emotion in them whatsoever.
this is what i do to my parents. they treat me horribly so i just ignore them and get on with life.
come and go freely as you please from your house.
if your mom starts an arguement with you, just walk away.
don’t pay her any attention.

Ah, teenage angst and hormones. I do NOT miss that. Not one bit.

Honey, everything seems so awful right now, but I guarantee you it’s not. And I know you’re going to read this and say “Yes it IS!!! My life is so horrible!!” Well I fully believe it feels that way to you, but it’s not. And you’ll understand it when you’re older.

And if you really think you’re life is so horrible, go do some overseas volunteer work in Darfur. THAT will open your eyes.

offt ur mum sounds like a ***** .. sorry things will get better my mum and dad are like it all the time i try not let it bother me … gd luck

i was always daddy’s little green eyed boy to my mum and no matter wot i did she always throed thing back in my face i couldn’t do right for doing wrong..the one day i woke up and i was her little angel..it freaked me out so much i confronted my dad and asked whats she on lol..the point is hun its life…i know it sounds stupid but she probably sees a lot of her in you and that shes just being protective your mum will come around to your level you’ll see

Luckily you will be out of there in a few more years. Sounds like your mom is stressed out and is having some issues. It wasn’t right to take your birthday money. Maybe your grandmother can talk to your mother. It’s tough. I wish that kids didn’t have so many dysfunctional parents out there. You know, sociologists say that a parent’s influence extends down the generations for at least 250 years. So, when you have kids, remember that . . . don’t “pass on” bad behaviors!

I agree your mom taking your b-day money sucks. Have you asked her why she took the money? Maybe there’s an issues with your nan? Maybe there’s a problem with the bills at home and she needed it?

Just remember your mom is human too. She may have something going on that you don’t know about.

Hugs.