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fubartigger1979
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Why?

Why is it that people come into my life and then once I get close to them, they leave???

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jm_2007 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (0 minutes after post)

Once you find out the answer to this question, please let me know! Thanks

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

i think that people grow… they grow out of things that they are use too.. and this is normal.. it is not you..

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jm_2007 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

but when you love something, you just don’t throw it away..

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~Shie~ offline Verified User (2 years, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Gloversville, NY, US | 1 year, 7 months ago (6 minutes after post)

and you are right… but.. people grow… such as… a kid will watch cartoons.. and then.. one day.. they grow out of it.. and start watching real tv..

its not that they dont want to watch the cartoon.. its just that they have grown out of it… and have other things in their mind… know what i mean?

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jm_2007 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Yes I do, but i don’t understand when someone says they love you and that they don’t know what they would do without you in there life and then one day disappears and never talks to you again… I don’t get how people can do that why they have feelings and we have feelings.. Humans have feelings unlife cartoons.. Do I make sense here?

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rphathawa offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (12 minutes after post)

You might be scaring them off. think about what you are doing or saying. believe it or not but words and actions will scare people off.

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1 year, 7 months ago (27 minutes after post)

the person i’m talking about was my best friend… the other thing is, I became clean from drugs and he kept doing them.. thats where it went wrong

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jm_2007 offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 7 months ago (27 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
the person i’m talking about was my best friend… the other thing is, I became clean from drugs and he kept doing them.. thats where it went wrong

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