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Do you think it’s weird?

Ok, so i have one tattoo already and I’m working on the second one coming and What i want i don’t know if it’s weird or what. But I want a star with my neices name in there? I mean she’s not my kid so is it weird that I would have her name on my body for the rest of my life? Is it ok to put her name on me? She also is my godchildren and that little girl means the world to me. I see her everyday and I can’t image life without her. Is it ok for me to put her name on me?

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x_dying_broken_heart offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (2 minutes after post)

if you love someone, it doesn’t matter at all how closely related to you they are. you obviously love her very much and i think it’s awesome that you want to get something on your body to symbolize her! :D

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (3 minutes after post)

Put whatever you want on you - it’s your body.
How old is your niece? Maybe asking her if it’s ok will ease your mind. If she thinks it’s creepy, don’t. If she thinks it’s wonderful, do. :)

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jm_2007 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (13 minutes after post)

she’s only 14 months old, and thats the thing too.. I don’t want people think i’m weird or anything for gettin’ her name on me..

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mochs8 offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (18 minutes after post)

wait until shes 18 then you can get each others names if you have a good enough relationship?

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (19 minutes after post)

What would her parents think of you getting her name tattood on you? Do they have other children that will feel left out? If they have more children does that mean you’ll have to get all their names tattood on you so they don’t feel left out?
Something to think about.

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jm_2007 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (24 minutes after post)

mochs8 wrote:
wait until shes 18 then you can get each others names if you have a good enough relationship?

I would be almost 40 when she turns 18, I’m thinking we wont get tattoo’s together then!

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jm_2007 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (29 minutes after post)

Chameleon wrote:
What would her parents think of you getting her name tattood on you? Do they have other children that will feel left out? If they have more children does that mean you’ll have to get all their names tattood on you so they don’t feel left out?
Something to think about.

I have 10 other neices and nephews by my half brothers, i’m not apart of there lifes like i am with this niece. My brother that has this niece had asked me to be her god mother no other brother asked that. So right there just plays a big roll in it. I do understand that someone might feel left out but i think it’s my choice to show that my niece knows who i am and that she’s my shinnin’ star!

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (35 minutes after post)

Of course it’s your choice. And if you’re set on doing it - why are you asking our opinions?

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Chameleon offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (40 minutes after post)

I was just throwing out some thoughts for you to mull over.
As I said in my first reply here -

Chameleon wrote:
Put whatever you want on you - it’s your body.

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KLSRE offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 days, 1 hour after post)

I think that it is cool for u to do that.

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jm_2007 offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

KLSRE wrote:
I think that it is cool for u to do that.

Thank you!

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Stealth0900 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 months after post)

yes i think thats fine i would be honored if i had a kid and other people loved her that much

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mouchi1117 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

Definately not weird, I have an entire tattoo piece on my right rib cage. Originally it was 3 stars the represented my 3 nieces, and then i cont verted it with 30 more stars, and a giagantic moon smiling when my sister finally got a boy at age 30. me and my sister and nieces and lil nephew are very close, so, its not weird at all.

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