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So recently, I moved away from home for a summer job. It was my first time leaving home and it was, for the most part, a good experience. The best part by FAR was that I met people from all over the world and made some amazing friends. Not only that, but I fell in LOVE. not for the first time in my life, but this time is completely different…so much so that it FEELS like my first love. He’s italian. He barely speaks english, but it is improving, ALOT. We understand eachother in so many other ways that we dont even need words. Anyways, I could go on and on and on about him and our amazing 2 months together, but that would take forever. The point is, I’ve been back home one week now. And he is still working where we met, miles and miles and miles and MILES away. I cant sleep, I cant do anything, all I do is cry and want to be with him. We see eachother on webcam everyday but its definitely not the same. On top of missing him, I HATE where I live. I hate this city and I hate everything about being back home. He wants me to hop on a plane and go with him to Italy…forever. My heart tells me to do it in a second…my head tells me otherwise. I am in college. I know I SHOULD stay home and finish my schooling…but honestly, I am NOT happy here and I KNOW I want to be with this man for the rest of my life. People might think im crazy saying this because I am only 22 years old. But I think my experiences have taught me quite alot about love and life already…and Ive been in my fair share of relationships. And I can safely say, I will NEVER feel this way about another individual again. Anyways, I keep contemplating if I should listen to my heart or my head??? Should I stay or should I go??? did I mention I HATE IT HERE!!!!!!!!!! I am miserable. And I will be until the day I leave this place. Please help me decide. The only thing thats holding me back from moving to Italy is my school….but I dont know if that’s enough…..my heart wants me to go…and I want to go…what should I do?!

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x_dying_broken_heart 9 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 minute after post)

pray about it. honestly, find God’s will in the situation.

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Chameleon 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (6 minutes after post)

How much longer do you have before you graduate?
Why can’t you move and finish your schooling in Italy?

sahara 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

GO GIRL

GO GO GO

i mean if you really know this guy isn’t just a fling
he means it? he really cares for you too?

i say go.

you can always finish school… anywhere if you want to.

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waterstreet36 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

have u tryed on-line college for ur school? If so that might be the answer ur looking for. because if u got years to go before u get out of school then on line in Ilaty would be better for ur heart, and sole. but before u go make sure he is the one.

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jaimekd 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (42 minutes after post)

I think you should go.
This sounds like a once-in-a-lifetime love, so go for it!
Like waterstreet36 said, theres online colleges!

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downtowndaisy 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

well here’s a scenario… not to be the party pooper, but think about this… you’re both madly in love, you drop out of school and move to italy to be with the man of your dreams…. you move-in together… one day you happened to have stepped out of your place for a while. You come home, only to find your italian love of your life cheating on you with someone else! What do you do then???

I’m just saying, you can’t predict life, but you can prepare for your future… finish school! Guys can wait! You never know what’s going to happen tomorrow. If he loves you he’ll wait for you.

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melodykyo_yoy 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (8 hours, 11 minutes after post)

Am I neglect something that I cannot see the reaction of your bf? I hope you can share your mind with him since you really want to spend your life together with him. If there’s a bright future waitting for you, or you assure you can go through of it no matter what happens, then stay!!

Times' gone mad 6 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 hours, 15 minutes after post)

See if you can go to school in Italy—some Universities have programs like that.

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gypsymermaid 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (13 hours, 2 minutes after post)

ah Italy, and the beautiful people that live there…. *sigh.. so you are in love ok, fantastic. I need to ask you this though, did you hate where you are now BEFORE you went to Italy, or just after you got an eyeful of the big big world? And he wants you to come to him - of course he does. But what exactly are you going to do there, where will you live, how will you support yourself? Yes schools are all around the world, and transfers are possible… But, are you seeing the situation with clear eyes and honestly or are the ‘love blinders’ on tight? School you need to finish - wherever in the world you end up for YOU!

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alexisa9 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (23 hours, 6 minutes after post)

Well first find out if once you get to Italy, you’ll be able to continue your schooling, and be accepted there. If yes, then go right ahead.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

Can’t he come to you until you finish your schooling? His English will improve and you will hate being where you are so much.. Just a thought.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (1 day, 8 hours after post)

*less.

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