Love help: Have been in a relationship like 3 months, we’ve met each other through MySpace.com and still dating. - Help.com

Have been in a relationship like 3 months, we’ve met each other through MySpace.com and still dating.

He’s from NY,USA and me living in thailand since i was born, at first we had a lot in common and now still. But the matter thing is hes still getting around with the girls hes met on the internet. He got caught up because i broke into his email and that caused the argument between us, he was so mad at me and called that by the word Betray. Its done and now ive found out that hes still hanging out with that girl who he told me that he Only kissed her [but he let her sleep over his apartment].

I am very upset but he said like ‘if you dont trust me anymore i have nothing to say’ — does that mean ‘you can go if you want to’ ,right?

the only reason that i didnt let go of him because he said he has been abandoned by the exs and he came across the world just to escape from those feelings and he doesnt wanna feel that way again. And i was the one that worth for loving again.. and said ‘im in love with you’… i am very confused :[

By the way he’s coming back home soon but before he leave we’re planing to go to Disney Land together and I will see and take care of him this weekend [ he got hit by a drunk driver in a pickup truck and got cuts so bad, i still care for him though]

sorry this is quite long and drama but i need your opinion helpers, thank you :]

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (5 minutes after post)

Well if he cheated thats a problem, do yo uthink you can trust him?

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Niim offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (7 minutes after post)

Nante wrote:
Well if he cheated thats a problem, do yo uthink you can trust him?

he told me about that girl is just a friend and nothing more than that, i like him a lot and cant stand if he gets upset..

that doesnt seem right i know but just cant stop it :[

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (9 minutes after post)

If you think that he is being honest with you, trust him but if more evidence shows up, dont ignore it.

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Niim offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Nante wrote:
If you think that he is being honest with you, trust him but if more evidence shows up, dont ignore it.

thank you very much i take ur advice Non-tay :]

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Your welcome :) Im glad I could help and I hope it all works out.

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WitnessUndercover offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (4 hours, 28 minutes after post)

Well, I have to be honest and tell you I have friends who have gotten divorced over internet dating only to find the other person was married and TOTALLY NOT what they seemed to be. I would not trust that guy as far as I can throw him, and well, I am small and not strong- so I hope that makes my point: I DON’T TRUST HIM!! My advice is simply to be very VERY careful with your heart. I respect the fact that you are caring for him, but just don’t let him take advantage of your kindness. Keep your eyes and ears open and I would keep being nosey- if he has nothing to hide it should not be a problem. Good luck!!

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Niim offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (8 hours, 24 minutes after post)

Kristin wrote:
Well, I have to be honest and tell you I have friends who have gotten divorced over internet dating only to find the other person was married and TOTALLY NOT what they seemed to be. I would not trust that guy as far as I can throw him, and well, I am small and not strong- so I hope that makes my point: I DON’T TRUST HIM!! My advice is simply to be very VERY careful with your heart. I respect the fact that you are caring for him, but just don’t let him take advantage of your kindness. Keep your eyes and ears open and I would keep being nosey- if he has nothing to hide it should not be a problem. Good luck!!

thank you very much Kristin :], its very helpful, i think ive found what i should do :]
thank you again

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