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I’m stuck!

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Help!!!
So for the rest of this summer, which is about a month, I have the folling options:
A: I visit my aunt in Arizona. It’s beautiful there, and nice and hot. It would just be me, my aunt, and her husband. Basically I would be on my own alot. I would get me time, to take walks or go to the pool. Bascially it is a perfect chance for me to get away from my homelife and relax.
B: I stay here. I would get a job, so I could get lots of money for school shopping!! And I have a friends birthday pool party thats always fun, and possibly abother persons party. Also I would have time to hang out with my friends before we go to our different schools.
I am not leaning towards any situation more than the other, they both have pros and cons! AHH I wish I had more time :[
What do you think I should do and why?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (13 minutes after post)

If you want money, stay here and work. On your off time you can go to the pool or hang out with your friends.

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 152 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

I’m sure you will do what is best for you. Good luck!

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Hmm well if I was you Id stay and hang out with my friends, since they would be going to a difrent school, I know first hand it can be heard to keep in touch after that, or at least it is for me, also I think a job is always a very good oppurtunity, besides, think of all the pie you could buy! :D

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
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haha but seriously, I think thats a good idea.

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colingibso offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 hours, 35 minutes after post)

I would stay here get some ching-ching

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*Dorien* TTYL offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 7 hours after post)

Is there a way you can hang out with your friends for a little bit, Then go to Arizona, and get a short job while your out there? That way you kind of get to do all three.

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Left offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

Go to Arizona and ride a bike in the desert with your eyes closed.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

I was in a similar situation, and I decided that now I would go have a weekend, before I left, to hang with people from different schools, and then I went to my aunt’s house in Maryland, and I’m having sooo much fun here! You should just relax in the summer…clear your mind and stuff, you can always get a job there if you NEED to, so anyway, if you choose your aunt, dont forget to bring a camera!

P.S. opportunities like spending a month with your aunt in beautiful Arizona are very rare, where as the pool parties and friends and what not you can do almost anytime…just hang with your friends from different schools on weekends during the school year, it worked out really well for me! So anyway, Good Luck!

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*Dorien* TTYL offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 days, 4 hours after post)

wallyANON17 wrote:
thanks joyful, great perspective! :]
im not sure, but i will deff look into it

No problem. I hope things work out.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (3 days after post)

No Problem! :)

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jmjmac offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Cleland, V8, GB | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 days, 19 hours after post)

I think you should go and stay with your aunt, as you are less likely to get the chance to have some “me time” in such a beautiful atmosphere than go out with your friends, who, although from different schools, you can arrange to meet at the weekends relatively easily.
Good luck, and I hope you enjoy your holiday either way =D

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