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deep…sad in away but yet beautifully written from the heart

1) How old are you?
2) What happened?

You have cancer you arent dieing from it

Your post are so sad and heart wretching. I hope and pray we find a cure for cancer so that innocent children/people wont have to suffer like this. My heart goes out to you and your poems are beautiful but sad :(

I have a 13 year old daughter. It sounds as though you had to grow up quickly. your poetry seems as a good outlet for your feelings, but why do you choose the word forgotten to explain yourself. only you can decide how to live your life and i hope that you don’t spend it thinking of the things you coulda done and see that you need to enjoy everyday as it is your last. i have taught my children you only live once so live with no regrets and enjoy the things that life has to offer wether it be good or bad.

berta wrote:
I have a 13 year old daughter. It sounds as though you had to grow up quickly. your poetry seems as a good outlet for your feelings, but why do you choose the word forgotten to explain yourself. only you can decide how to live your life and i hope that you don’t spend it thinking of the things you coulda done and see that you need to enjoy everyday as it is your last. i have taught my children you only live once so live with no regrets and enjoy the things that life has to offer wether it be good or bad.

http://help.com/post/182624-i-just-fi…

Read this post and maybe you can suggest somethings she can do to live a happy fulfilling life

I would tell you but i havent experienced life myself so i would be a hypocrite if i told you to live your life when i dont even live mine

trueromantic- you act as though she should stay couped up in the house and do nothing.

some people are dealt a hard hand, all you can do is work with what you are given. if i was put with limited time i would spend what time i have left with friends making the most of whats left. yes 13 is young but there are still things to do. all depends on the energy status.
-a camping trip even if its a tent in the backyard with friends.
-reading some poetry under a tree on a warm day.
-gettin a manicure with friends or one friend.

there are amillion things to do and when perhaps they can’t get done anymore you can look back and remember what you did do instead of think about what you could have done

What? No i was suggesting you tell her what she can do because she asked in a previous post she made. I was not insulting you in anyway. Sorry if i came off that way but that was not my intentions at all

sorry thats the way it came out to me.

i would just hope that she would spend what time she does have enjoying loved ones or the things she would enjoy…something i would tell my friends or family or a complete stranger because i spent way to much time in my own life focusing on what i didn’t have or what i couldn’t do until about 5 years ago when someone told me if your unhappy with your life then change it.

You are a very grown child. You have a deep aspect on life that many adults don’t have and can’t appreciate. so if you don’t mind me asking why did your parents give you to your brother?

sweetheart he did have a choice…he chose to want you. he could have left you. even as you feel god forgot to heal you, he has given you the gift to realize what is important in life, and you know that when youreach heaven that things can only get better, and i realize that like every other person you want your heavan on earth….me too.

your right in that aspect you have been cheated by what has happened, and do agree that you deserve a better chance at what should be your life, all i can do is encourage you to find at least one good thing out of everyday, wether it be a hug, a special moment with friends, or maybe a good poem. you are in my thoughts as wellas my prayers. i’m off to bed cuz i have to get up in 5 hours to go to a stupid factory job.have a good night