Love help: Long Distance Relationship

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Long Distance Relationship

Theres this girl i really love and i know she loves me but she lives 3000 miles away, i only get to see her once a year and i wont be able to move there for anougher 8 years or so…
What should i do?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (8 minutes after post)

8 years no one can see that far into the future. If you are really in love make it happen, you may never have the same experience again don’t let it slip by. Why not take a risk?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (10 minutes after post)

How old are you? the moves you can do would sometimes depend on how old you and the girl.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Young love can change as time goes by. Even adult love do changes. But i don’t want to belittle your feelings. And i support you instead.

If you can have a vacation if it is possible, then you can see her. If you are allowed for a number of factors (time, parents, money etc).

If you could not do that, you can talk on the net as often as you want. A special friend of mine and i talk on almost every night and he is in London! so anything can be possible.

There is nothing you can do much about it now but to hang on and enjoy the life. In a distance. She is right there in your heart.

Good luck.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Are you afraid your relationship is too longdistant to last the years you plan to be in school

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (22 minutes after post)

You are welcome. :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (26 minutes after post)

Its a tough call. I think if your relationship does last all the tests it will undoubtly face then you are ment to be together.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (37 minutes after post)

no. be positive

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

If you want to stick with her, you’re going to need to see her more than once a year for 8 years. That said, I believe these things can work out.

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