friends help: Should i stay her friend? - Help.com

The answer is yes, but you need to address this issue with her, firmly.

If she is your friend then tell her. “This guy is a jerk, he only wants one thing from you” and then if you can’t be around her, split.

you definitely need to talk to her. tell her that you can’t deal with him. hopefully she’ll see this. if not, just start spending time with other friends and she’ll eventually catch on to what you’re saying.

i think u should tell her that she have change a lot n u think it is because of him…n if she like this u don;t think it will work out as being friend…

ahhhh…first loves…=]

they are always the hardest because you are just struck blind with affection…
my advice would be to talk to her…[very, very gently]…reminding her of some of the stupid stuff shes done for her boyfriend…im sure if she is like any other girl then she doesnt realize how much she’s changed because she is too excited about having her first boyfriend…talk to her…remind her…anything to try to keep your relationship…

if she doesnt listen, then she probably doesnt value your opinion, and therefor doesnt value you as a friend…[as sad as that sounds]

however…if you value her as a friend, then you will stand by her because lots of people need more of a push instead of just advice…as her friend you can help her see how she is acting, WHEN SHE IS DOING IT…if she ever does anyhting bad in front of you because of her boyfriend you can just point it out saying “see this is wat i was talking to you about”

anyways, i hope that helps

*~Sarah~*

he boyfriend is a jerk. Try and tell her this. Write down how she used to be and how she is now and show it to her or something. It might help her to realise it because she probasbly knows that shes changed for the worse but she doesnt want to say it out loud for incase it seems more real.
try ad understand your friends reasons behind it and try to help her as much as you can because it looks like she might need your support when this jerk gets his own way.