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Just wanted to stop in and say hi.

I haven’t been on here in quite a while and I have missed talking to my friends here. Everything is going great for me. I am doing better then I even have in my life, and better then I ever thought I could. God has provided me with a miracle in my life and He has healed me from so much. I don’t have my panic attacks anymore. I do not attempt suicide or do any self harm. I have found so much joy in life and a sense of purpose.

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Chase Landon offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (6 minutes after post)

That’s great, JoJo!
I’m glad you have a sense of purpose.
But what, if I can ask, is that purpose?

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

Right now, my purpose is to get healthy and to share my joy and new life with others. I am finishing up some psychology classes and beginning to volunteer with a youth ministry. I hope to tell others about the things I have gone through and how God saved me when all hope was gone. I want to encourage the hopeless and let them see that there is always hope and that no one is too far gone. Even after all of the pain I have experienced in my life, and all of the mistakes I made, I have found joy and hope. If I can, so can anyone else.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 17 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (10 minutes after post)

That’s so great! I’m really happy for you, and I hope others can find the same happines you have! Stay happy!

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (11 minutes after post)

Thank you very much :)

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Chase Landon offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (12 minutes after post)

That’s amazing.

I’ll be praying for you;
Get well soon.

God bless, and may his face shine upon you!

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (14 minutes after post)

Thank you :)

How are you doing?

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littlenick offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 159 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (15 minutes after post)

Excellent! God bless you! Many prayers will come your way! May all the praises of the lord and his blessings be released from the clouds in the heavens and rain upon you!

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Chase Landon offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (16 minutes after post)

me?

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Chase Landon offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

(in response to jojo’s question)

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 minutes after post)

Chase, yeah, I was asking how you are doing.

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Thank you very much littlenick.

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Chase Landon offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (18 minutes after post)

Well, I’m at that restless stage in life…
Trying to get work, an idea of what I want to do in life,
and get closer to God.

I’m a bit young, but…whatever…

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Chase Landon offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 minutes after post)

Age isn’t all that important, right?

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (22 minutes after post)

Chase, how old are you? Being young is tough, but it is awesome. It is a time filled with passion and excitement. When people get older, they are often too set in their ways to make big changes that God may call them to. As a young person, you have the chance to follow whatever passion God puts in your heart. You make me think of Timothy in the Bible. Paul was constantly telling him not to let people think less of him because he was young and not to feel insignificant because of his age. That is great that you are trying to figure things out and find out exactly what your calling is. Keep seeking after it and God will show you step by step.

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Chase Landon offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

Right.
That’s the beauty of faith, isn’t it?
God only lets you see far enough to get to the next step;
that’s how he helps us: one step at a time.

Oh, and I’m sixteen.

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Marietta, GA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (25 minutes after post)

YAY, JOJO!

I was just thinking about sending you an email and wondering if you would get it…I was sending one of my other friends an email, and your email address popped up!

I hope things are going very, very well for you. You deserve it!

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (28 minutes after post)

Chase, sixteen is a great age! You seem very mature and intelligent for 16. I think God knows that if He let us see too far in advance, we would mess things up. He only gives us as much as we can handle at the time.

Yay! Gimli’s here! I have missed talking to you a lot. I haven’t changed my old e-mail address, so e-mail me any time. How are you doing?

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gimli offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Marietta, GA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (31 minutes after post)

I’m doing pretty well…kinda tired at the moment but life is good. How about yourself?

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gimli offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Marietta, GA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (32 minutes after post)

Unfortunately, I have to step out for a bit…I may be back later. If not, I’ll send you an email sometime soon!

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (33 minutes after post)

I’m doing awesome. I’m also a little tired right now, but still doing great. Life has never been better. I have had two months of total freedom and joy and it is the greatest thing.

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (33 minutes after post)

Alright, I’ll talk to you again sometime :)

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gimli offline Verified User (3 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Marietta, GA, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (34 minutes after post)

I came back just for a second…and you are going to make my cry, JoJo! That is exciting news indeed. I’m practically beside myself, I’m so excited for you!

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (36 minutes after post)

Thank you Gimli. You have always been such a wonderful friend. You have helped me through the toughest times, and I wanted you to be able to see the best times too.

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Bex offline Verified User (2 years, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (9 hours, 56 minutes after post)

Hi JoJo,

I’m so pleased to hear such great news from you. You must be so proud of yourself for getting this far after all you’ve been through. Well done you! Keep up the good work. All the best, Bex x

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (10 hours, 41 minutes after post)

JoJo, you are the BEST IN THE WEST girl…love ya so much and missed you so much…have asked about you on a number of occasions! A big HUG for my friend JoJo!

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (10 hours, 49 minutes after post)

JoJo, as I think back thru all our drama, and what you have gone thru…of my gosh, and to see you find purpose in your life and doing good…OH MY..God is Good..Thank you Lord for helping my friend JoJo! You are one SPECIAL LADY. Love ya very much JoJo!

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Matt offline Verified User (3 years) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (10 hours, 55 minutes after post)

Great to hear old friend!

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Tullahoma, TN, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (15 hours, 20 minutes after post)

It’s great to hear from you Jojo! I’m so happy to know you’re doing so much better. Much love =]

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (15 hours, 40 minutes after post)

Hi Jo Jo. I know you don’t know me but Spunky invited me. I am very happy for you. How did the change happen, if you don’t mind me asking.
I have been going through a whole lot and interested to here how you did it to see if it can help me and the many others on here with the same problem.

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thep offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 13 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (17 hours, 13 minutes after post)

I have watched over the last year and more, the ups and downs of your life. That you have managed to overcome so much in your life is truly remarkable.
You now know the truth, that you matter to the world, that you have an aim and a goal in life. That you have the commitment to help others in their troubles is a wonderful thing.
Keep being strong.

I admire your strengths.

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Queen of Lost Vampyr offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (18 hours, 59 minutes after post)

welcome back!!! I missed you!
*huge mega super hugs*

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live4life offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (19 hours, 43 minutes after post)

haha i don’t even know you, but its always great to hear when someone who was going through a hard time has found happiness.

i hope that happiness stays with you for a long time!

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Limon offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (23 hours, 26 minutes after post)

JoJo’s back! The blue butterfly flies again! Hurray! Her wings have healed! Fly butterfly, fly! It’s a happy day for help.com. :)

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 2 hours after post)

Hey Bex, good to hear from you. I am not really proud of myself, God has done all of the work for me, but I definitely feel blessed and hopeful.

Hey Spunky, hug right back at you. I have missed you a lot too. I am glad I can get a chance to talk to you a bit. God is definitely awesome.

Hey Matt, it’s good to “see” you. Thanks for saying hi :)

Hey Mitz, good to hear from you too. Much love right back at you.

Hey broussardhh, nice to meet you. Honestly, when it came down to it, the only thing I really needed to do was surrender to God. I went through every kind of treatment possible, every kind of medication, and every diagnoses they could come up with, but nothing helped. God took me step by step on a journey of healing and brought me to a place where I was desperate enough to give up the pain I carried around with me and had become dependent on. Some people from my church asked me to get together with them and pray with them, and we went through a 12 hour journey of seeking God, discovering ways I had allowed myself to dwell in illness, and repenting. At the end of it all, God gave me freedom and showed me that He has a much better plan for my life then I could have ever imagined.

thep, thank you so much. I really appreciate your encouragement. You are right, now I know truth, and I am going to live that truth out so that God can use me to help others.

Queen of Lost Vampyr, I missed you too. I am glad to be back and to get to talk to my friends here. *huge mega super hugs* right back at you my friend.

live4anon, nice to meet you :) Thank you for your encouragement. I hope to see you around and get to know you a bit :)

Limon, you’re so sweet. I have missed you. My wings have definitely been healed and I am enjoying flying. It’s so much better then I ever thought it would be :)

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NOLA Lady offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

I am glad that worked for you. i know that type of stuff has worked for others on here too. I wish that would work for me. Godd is part of my problem not my solution but I won’t get into tha there. Thanks for sharing. You have alot to offer the people here.

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Felicity on break offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 days, 9 hours after post)

Hello! I had a best friend for years I called Jo JO.And I love your avatar,I love butterflies.anyway,welcome back and WOW! You’ve come a long way.I know Those things are not easy to break. Maybe we can work together in helping others to see how much easier Life is with God in their lives :)

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (2 days, 10 hours after post)

My friend JoJo rocks!

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Chicago, IL, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 days, 1 hour after post)

Glad things are going well for you! It always go to hear good news!

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Listy gurl offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
US | 1 year, 3 months ago (4 days, 20 hours after post)

JOJO!!!!!!!!!!! Im happy things are going good for you!!!
Its been forever since you’ve been on. I missed talking to you. Well. not many people are on anymore. Including me. I don’t stay up 48 hours on the computer anymore! Lol.
Im soooo happy things are so much better for you!

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BD | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 days, 14 hours after post)

Its so good to hear from you again Jojo! But its even better to know the you are doing awesome and have recovered so much!! I am so happy for you, I hope things keep going as good as it is going now for you.

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Hope offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (5 days, 23 hours after post)

I’m so glad you’re doing so well now!!! And it’s great you stopped by to say hi to us :)

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

Broussardh, I am sorry to hear that you feel that God is part of your problem, not your solution. Even if your not too fond of God right now, I am praying for you. I spent a long time feeling like God was just making my life difficult and painful and that I would just be better off without believing in Him. Luckily, He didn’t feel the same way about me. Everyone finds the healing they need at different times. I spent my whole life just searching for healing, including almost 12 years in mental hospitals, finally, God had me at the right time and place, and He chose to bring healing into my life.

Cookies, I LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOVVVVVVVVVVEEEEEEEEEEEEEE YYYYYYOOOOOOOOUUUUUU!!!!!!!!!!

Hello Mama bear, it is good to get to talk to you. I think JoJo is a fun nickname. I love butterflies too. My mom loved them and she taught me to love them. She said they are an example of new life. The old, unattractive life is replaced with beauty and freedom in new life. As I learn more about freedom, I love that analogy even more. I really do hope we can work together to show people how much better life is with God.

Spunky, my friend Spunky (always Qzzzzz to me) totally rocks :)

Webjeff, thank you. Good news rocks and too often we don’t hear enough of it :)

LISTY!!!!!!!!!!!! It’s so good to “see” you! I have missed you too. I think it’s good that you don’t stay up 48 hours at the computer anymore, but I’m still glad you’re around when you can be :)

Forsakentenshi,thank you very much :)

Hope! I am so glad to see you are still here. I have missed you a lot. How are you?

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

Hi Sarah :) Thank you very much. God is so good and I am very thankful that He has helped me and that He helps all of His people.

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

JoJo, love you very much….there has never been a lady on this site with your HUGE heart…you rock girl…

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

Spunky, you are soooooo incredibly awesome and I have always loved and appreciated you. You have never put me down or made me feel bad about myself, even though there were plenty of times you could have. You have just always been so encouraging and kind and I appreciate it. You totally and completely rock :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

If you were not so dang young…loll..would drive to Fort Collins and propose to you JoJo…in this life, you don’t meet many “TRUE BLUE” people…but, you are one in a million girl…you just don’t know how special you are…

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

lol…the first almost proposal I have ever gotten :)

Thank you Spunky, that really means a lot to me. It is a high compliment because it comes from someone I respect so much.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

I Love you girl…those guys in Co must not know a good thing when they see it…

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

hehe…the guys in Colorado don’t know much :p

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Rotech927 offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

VERY TRUE JoJo! If they don’t know a special lady when they see it….that is their problem…

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

You’re so sweet :)

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week after post)

Sarah,

You’re welcome. I am glad if I can help. I definitely want to be your friend 4eva :)

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Panic attacks are difficult and a lot of people don’t understand them. I’m so happy that is out of your life.
someone that had them too,
-n

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week, 1 day after post)

Thank you Nikko. Panic attacks are definitely problematic, and I think you are right, a lot of people don’t understand them, which just makes it more difficult to deal with.

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JoJo offline Verified User (2 years, 12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 7 #
Fort Collins, CO, US | 1 year, 3 months ago (1 week, 4 days after post)

Oh, you better still love me! Just because the capitals love me and not you doesn’t mean you get to not love me!

Yes, I stole your capitals, I admit it, I confess it, and now I beg for your forgiveness. It’s just that the capitals and I have such a special relationship and I need them to tell you how much I LOOOOOOOOOOVEEEEEEEEEEEE YYYYYYYYOOOOOOOOUUUUUUU!!!!!

I e-mailed you!

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An Unknown Location | 1 year, 1 month ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

i am so encouraged by your post regarding the love and support your adoptive parents provided you. Right now my heart is breaking for my 17, almost 18 year old daughter whom i adopted almost six years ago. She has left us…after years of toiling with her through Christian counseling… of loving her, of spending and inordinate amount of time with her…i don’t know who she is now.

I hope one day that she too understands our commitment to and love for her.

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