guy help: is this a date or no? - Help.com

Yeah sounds like a date, you should talk to him, I take it you dont like him that way do you?

Did he say “Do you want to go out to a movie with me?”

i don’t know
i mean he’s a year older than me and randomly he was just like oh have you seen step brothers? i heard its really good
and i told him i hadn’t but i wanted to see it and that my sister kept falling through on our plans to go see it
and then he was like
well hey…would you want to go see it with me?

and i said yeah
but i really can’t tell if he likes me like that or nott

Sounds like a date to me. :D Get some popcorn!

just ask. i seriously can’t understand why people are so scared to just be blunt and ask people. “Is this a date?” its not that hard to say. have you ever asked anyone out on a date, same concept, its just in the present tense instead of the future: “are we” instead of “will you”. but if you want my opinion based on the info you have given, sort of. it seems like he might be thinking about it. you were there for him when he needed you, he’s feeling grateful and he thinks he might like you. again, just ask.

ahh you guys! it was awesome.
we went to the movies
then grabbed a bite to eat
then went to a park by my house
whereeee he told me (during a silence after he made it seem like he wasnt interested in me becuase of his ex) that he was a little confused about this shindig. he told me he was interested but he wasnt sure if he wants to be friends or he thought he did but now hes unsure and may want to be more
so even though i still dont know if it was a date or not ahah, i had a blast.
the boy’s amazing.

Thats awsome anon! Glad you had such a good time! :D