Well, that’s good and all.. but he’s taken!
You’re just gonna have to wait for him to break it off with her.
good good, so what’s the problem?
but why did he kindda ignore me at the parc
and his friend couldnt stop smiling at me and all
&
does his friend like me or something… ?
and like they had small talks.. was it good or bad ones ?
sorry I actaully couldn’t understand your post.
Well, I think his friend does like you. I mean it’s rather obvious.. he’s making
strong eye contact and there’s lots of smiling. Maybe the guy you like was trying to set you both up, but then why would he do that? idk.
Just wait and see what happens. See if he does in fact break up with her.
I think you need to talk to him to see what’s going on.
Hopefully he’s not messing with you..
How old is he?
13 and me too his friend is 15
no his friend is 14 srry 4 the mstake
ok, I see.
If his friend likes you and it’s clear to me that he does
would you go with his friend?
ya i would
when he was talking to me
he directly gave me his msn
but i dnt know how to ask his friend out
Okay, I didn’t know that… I thought you didn’t like his friend and wanted the guy with the girlfriend to be yours.
but his friend the moment he saw me he smilleed
and its ok to me if its his friend
but i dnt know how to say it to him
It’s not that hard to ask somebody out.
It’s seems like you won’t have to though becasue
I think if he likes HE will ask you out.
Well how long has he known you?
haha umm give it some time then.
I’m sure he’ll come around unless he’s shy.
Then in that case you’ll have to ask him, so I’ll tell you how.
can you tell me now.. how to ask him ..
but i wont obviously ask him now
yeah, wait awhile. Just start talking to him make conversation, flirt, make him laugh. Don’t be nervous when you ask him he’s just a guy and he’s as nervous as you are trust me. Do it over the phone if that helps.
Over the phone just ask him if he wants to do something with you sometime.
Don’t say it’s a date. Just say, “Hey, I was wondering if you weren’t busy if you’d like to do something fun with me I’m going here —- wanna come?”
That’s all you have to say. If he likes you he’ll definitely
say yes and he’ll be gald you asked him.
when i ask him to go somewhere with me … i mean alone (just me and him?)
No No it doesn’t have to be like that. I think that would be a mistake anyway. You should take him out with some of your friends just invite him along. I think that will make both you and him more comfortable. Go see a movie, go to the mall, beach, whatever just do it together with friends.
Well, I hope this helps somewhat.
Maybe you should start a new post on simply “how to ask a guy out” and see what others think.
THX ALOT !!!:) But do u think that hes thinking about it too ?
the guy with the girlfriend ask me to go to the pool with him and some of my friends but I am afraid that his friend would like some of my friends
vanou_6 wrote:
THX ALOT !!!:) But do u think that hes thinking about it too ?
Oh I most certainly do!!!
Hopefully he’ll ask you first.
Good luck!
thx for alll !!!
it helped me alot !! =D
vanou_6 wrote:
the guy with the girlfriend ask me to go to the pool with him and some of my friends but I am afraid that his friend would like some of my friends
Don’t worry about it. Just go and have fun.
you’re welcome
omg…
all of my friends are out of the city for vacation…
i cant go with friends ! =S what do i do ? o.o
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yaa i need to know if hes friend likes me
vanou_6 wrote:
omg…
all of my friends are out of the city for vacation…
i cant go with friends ! =S what do i do ? o.o
How long will they be out? You could wait! Or you could make plans in advance with him. Be like “Hey, in a few weeks I’m going blah blah blah wanna come.”
Or you could go where there are a lot of people.
Like the beach or something..Somewhere crowded.
The whole idea is just to make you both more comfortable.
I’ll talk to you later!
i told his friend to call me .. see if he wants to do something…
soo if he calls me and say yes does it mean something ?
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Yeah, I think it does mean something.
Listen, he likes you vanou_6. From what you told me about what happened at the park it’s clear that he likes you. Now if he says yes then sure that proves that he does. If he says no or doesn’t answer it could just mean that he’s too shy and scared, but either way he likes you and will be thrilled you asked. If he doesn’t answer with anything he may just need time to think about it and he will.
You’ll be all over his mind!
Please tell me what he says :)
well i have somme newss lol
he didnt answer me
and the guy with the gf
i told him to come to the parc with me
and hes like : im too lazy to go
then i said that im going to another parc
hes like :
no im not coming
im like :
u changed since u saw me.. u hate me dnt u
hes like : no ?
im like :
ya ok…
but his friend is not answering to me
on msn yes but i dunno what to say
Don’t use that guy with a gf as a middle man.
How do you know if he actaully asked the guy if he would go with you?!
I woudn’t trust him. FORGET HIM!!!
Why take him with you?!.. Find somebody else to go along perferably another guy friend, but an unattractive girl would serve well too.( I know.. that’s mean. lol)
As for the guy who’s not answering on msn.
Did he say anything about it at all? Did he say “NO” or was he NOT ANSWERING like kinda just beating around the bush?..I need to know..this is IMPORTANT!
so please tell me so i can tell you what to do next. ok?
his friend that made eye contact
talked to me on msn and like ya we had a good talk
i asked him and he like didnt answer me
and he didnt called me nothing
but he pronounced he went at the pool
the guy with the gf invited me to go to the parc again
so maybe he wants to be crowed to see me
or something
maybe his doing it for his friend
Hey vanou-6, that’s all good news!
He didn’t say no.
Yeah, go to the park with the guy who has the gf. That’s weird he wants to go all of a sudden.. before you told me he said “No, I’m too lazy.” That’s funny!
Maybe his friend wants him to go..
maybe even his friend will be there.
Definitely go the the park!!!
Tell me how it goes..
i didnt go to the park becoz no friend wanted to go with me
but his friend was there
did his friend call you to see why you weren’t there?
well, that’s all good!
Did he say anything about trying it again some other time?
Maybe next time you should just go together and forget that other person.
That guy with the gf isn’t too nice for doing that too you. He shouldn’t say yes but then not go..that’s really not nice at all.
ya he asked me to do it some other time
but the guy with the gf isnt too nice to me
what should i do with his friend ??
its going pretty well
hey vanou I’m really happy for you..
His friend definitely likes you!!!
Forget the guy with the gf. He probably doesn’t want to get caught hanging around you because it would be like cheating. I think he still has feelings for his girl so he’ll most likely stay with her for now.
What is around there to do?
do you have beaches, movie thearters, museums, etc.
I’d say just set up a time to go to the park again for now.
I’m glad it’s going well!
there are just movies and parcs
should we go like just me and him ?
but like do u think he will say it to me soon ??
is that a good sign that he called me to see ?
should i tell his friend that i like him ?
i went to the park today with him the guy with the gf and my friend
and like he knows that i like him
i dont know how !! what to doo !
vanou_6 wrote:
there are just movies and parcs
should we go like just me and him ?
but like do u think he will say it to me soon ??
I think he’s going to ask you pretty soon. Maybe it might be okay if you go together (that is if you feel good enough).. Going to see a movie by yourselves is probably better than going to the park by yourselves. Why? because it lets you focus on something else (the movie) rather than him thereby putting you more at ease.(him too.) It seems like your other friends aren’t reliable. They just mess your plans up sometimes.
vanou_6 wrote:
is that a good sign that he called me to see ?
It’s a very very good sign!
He’s interested in you and likes you as I said before.
Also calling back shows he cares which is important.
he knows that i like him !
what to do ?
why do you have to do anything?
It’s his turn..he’s probably going to make a move soon so be ready.
He’s goNnA KiSs YoU!!! yep.
do u think its true bcz he was laughing wile doing it
do u think its like me or something
Like I said all you can do now is wait.
he knows you like him..now it’s his turn.
See if he dumps her.
Idk why he would laugh?
It’s hard for me to tell if it’s true I need more detail..
Laughing while doing what?
while saying that he has a gf
okay okay I get it now!
I was a bit confused
today i saw him and like he was keeeping looking at me and then my phone rang he said : i like ur ringtone
Have you ever even seen his gf and him together?
Did his friend or anybody say that he had one?
I think he may be making it up
oh wait I’m sorry I’;m completely wrong
I’m kinda busy at the moment do it’s hard for me to say anything.
I’m sorry for srewing this up
I’ll get back to you later
about what
no i never saw him with his gf
ok ill wait for you
and by the way.. every time i say to him if he wants to go to the parc he says yes but he needs the approval of the guy with the gf
Wait a minute
you’re confusing me
vanou_6 wrote:
i went to the park today with him the guy with the gf and my friend
and like he knows that i like him
i dont know how !! what to doo !
read this above.. I thought it said guy with the girl together.
non listen today i went to the parc with my friend and i called the guys and they came after that, the guy (with the gf )called and said : what did u guys said about us
i said : i told good things but my friend jsut didnt like u guys
then he replies : who do u like better me of my friend
i replied his friend
and then his friend said that im good ( like im fine … im not ugly and all im pretty and stuff liek that )
i repet THE GUYS DIDNT COME WITH A GIRL
the guy that has a gf lets call him jordan and his friend : riad
today i went to the parc with my friend
and then jordan and riad came …
after , when we leaved
jordan calls me and said :
did u talk about us
i said : ya
then he says :
like what tell me the thruth
i said : i told good things but my friend just didnt like you guys
then he said :
if u had a choice between me or riad who will it bee..
i said :
riad
then he gives me riad and he says :
ya this is riad
i say : what did u say about me
he said : i jsut told jordan that u are fine
I guess I read it wrong.. sorry.. Thank you for making it clearer!
Anyway,
HE DOES NOT HAVE A GF!!!
It’s all made up then.
Why did he lie about it?.. I don’t know.
Raid needs permission to go because Jordan doesn’t want you to be alone with him.
I THINK THEY BOTH LIKE YOU vanou_6:))
So you want raid then ha?
ya
but dont forget that when jordan breaks up with his gf he wants to be with me
but i want to be with Riad
every time jordan founds riad looking at me his kind of mad and he calls him and start a conversation
Ok this makes so much more sense to me!
I have to admit that I was a bit confused for awhile.
The way you write ..I’m glad you’re using names I was gonna suggest that.
listen vanou_6 I’m sorry I haven’t given you any good answers I’m just sorta doing two thing at once right now. I hope you understand.
I much rather talk tommorrow if that’s ok with you?
I’m going to help you with this!
thank you alot
i will wait till tomorow bcz i dont want to bother you
im sorry for my english
lol bcz i speak french more
see ya =D
Hey that’s fine!
Thank you
ttyl
THANK VERYY MUUCHHH OMMMGG !
Riad Called me and he says : we are friends and now i have a confession i think its higher then friendship. love. i love you. and he gives me all those adjectives !!
at the end he says : i love you and he closes the phone
but like jordan was laughing at the back and becoze of it like he wasnt that sirious
then jordan calls me back he says : hes going to kiss youu !!!!
then he invites me to the park next to my house
abut then his friend came (Joey) and he didnt have a bike soo they couldnt go..
WAS IT SIRIOUS WHEN HE SAID THAT HE LIKES ME OR IS IT A JOKKEE ???IS HE RLY GOING TO DO IT ?
Love ia a very strong word and usaully when a person says that they mean it. Does raid mean what he said? Yes, I think so. Don’t pay attention to Jordan. I think Jordan’s acting like a little kid about it. I think he’s jealous of Raid, but also he finds it entertaining in some way and is probably egging Raid on to say that to you.
I remember fooling around on the phone with girls I liked back at your age and my friends were there telling me. “Hey, come on…tell her you like her.. do it!! hahaha and I would, but I didn’t just say it as a joke.. I MEANT IT!
They were there teasing me and saying stuff like in the background “— and —- sitting in a tree k-i-s-s-i-n-g.”blah blah blah.
so don’t mind Jordan!
I think Raid probably will kiss you at some point.
If he does it alone with you than he’s serious.
If it’s in front of his friends than he’s probably not so serious.
I would always kiss girls I liked alone together
listen, i jsut talked to my ex.. (the friend of jordan)
his name is charles
so charles said to me : he knows that u like him
soo his just joking around with you
and i called jordan and asked what is happening he said that he doesnt know
soo hes going to tell riad about it
now his calling riad
Ok.
Tell me what happens..
im on the phone with riad
we are rlyy laghing its crazy we are having alot of fun on the phone
ok now he had to go
omg its 21h40
ive been on the phone like 1h
does it mean something ?
0k now im going crazy
i wanna know who likes me and who doesnt
Wow that’s a long time!
Trust me if he’s spending that much time on the phone with you and you guys are having fun and laughing he LIKES YOU!
RIAD likes you..
I don’t know who doesn’t.. I think Jordan likes you a lot too.
This is really good!
Be happy vanou_6.. good things are coming your way baby!!!
are u sure that this is all true.. im soo afraid that it doesnt turn the way its suposed to be
yea, I’m sure it’s real. I understand guys behavior.
Don’t be afraid.
Why do you think he’s just messing with you?
I don’t think so.
i cant wait anymore
when will all this happen ??
i just wanna know when..
Relax..
Riad is hooked!
It could be the NEXT time you talk over the phone that he’ll ask you out somewhere like the park. Then he’ll kiss you and you will have a bf finally.
It will be very soon.
I know you’re excited!
sounds like within a few days or a week.
oh my gosh i cant wait …
jordan is talking about me to his friend !! uh noo
whats happeining
ok no it was a mistake .. forget my post !
the guys invited me to go to the parc ..
BUT 2 of my friends has to come ..
Nobodys available !
and i told him that he said : ok forget it
( i talked to jordan )
jordan called me
and said discosting things… !
and then i said why are you asking all that
he said : beacose Riad Loves You !!!! and he wants to know…
! but its realy discusting ! i didnt answer
he keeps repeting that Riad likes me !!
and riad was in the back of jordan
should i call Riad And Ask Him If He Likes Me ?
or its a job he will do
No, you don’t have to ask him!
It’s really obvious he’s trying to get Jordan to tell you.
Riad needs to tell you himself!
Question vanou_6:
Ok in the back what do you hear Riad saying?
Is Riad trying to stop Jordan from saying digusting things?
Or is Riad calm and quiet?
[THIS IS IMPORTANT TO KNOW!!!]
the two..
he was stoping him and being calm and quiet…
alot of laughing
let me explain…
Riad was just saying to stop when Jordan told me that its him whos asking those questions
But Beside that calm and quiet and laughing
ok that says a lot.
being calm and quiet means he wanted Jordan to say some stuff..wanted Jordan to say that he likes you. Probably didn’t want him to say all those digusting things, but yeah ITS CLEAR NOW.. RIAD LIKES YOU!!!!
Next time you talk say,
“Hey Jordan, Tell Riad back there to stop acting like a little boy AND JUST ASK ME OUT ALREADY?????”
That’s what I would do!
omg.. wat do u think he will say
He’ll probably laugh some more and than Jordan will say he said yes!
U are sure of what you are saying
yes yes, but if you’re doubtful than wait awhile and let the game continue.
I know you want things to happen fast so that’s why I’m suggesting it now.
and I think it’s the right time.
but like should i call and say that ??
NO, just the next time Jordan calls you and you know Riad is there with him.ok?
Ok :) But.. If Jordan likes me ..
if Riad doesnt like me…
when they are doing the same stuff like “Riad likes you!” blah blah blah
Riad likes you!
Jordan if he was saying all theat stuff about Riad liking you.
Duh! Don’t you think he’s trying to tell you something?!
Jordan likes you too but I think he wouldn’t be saying all that stuff about Riad if he Really really liked you get it!
ya i get it
But if i say what you said
and then Riad Says : we were joking.. u took it sirious
ouch!
how do you know they are just joking?
no no I don’t think he is!
well, like I said wait until you know FOR SURE that he does in fact Like you.
but I really don’t think they are just making a big joke out of it.
how to know
How ! im soo confused
lets think good
riad likes me
riad likes me
i hopee that they are not joking
From what you have been telling me on here I gather that he does have real feelings for you. By the way he looks at you, the time spent talking laughing with you, and having his friend Jordan tell you he likes you etc.
You see I would have to be on the phone listening to know for sure if it’s just a joke. ONLY YOU can decide that and if you think it is than don’t do anything right now.
It’s not possible for me to tell exactly, but from what I heard you say..I don’t think he’s joking!
i see .. im going to judge and ill do it soon for sure
i have a ideal but i need your aproval
why cant …
when Jordan Calls Me And Say That Riad Likes Me
I Start By Saying :
Are you joking?
hell say no
then ill say : Jordan, Tell Riad back there to stop acting like a little boy AND JUST ASK ME OUT ALREADY?????
Yeah and say it nice and loud too!
you don’t need my approval!
I think it’s the best thing to say and even if they were joking (which I don’t think)
Riad would at leat be thinking, “Hey, I could get this girl!”
It’s up to you though. You have to decide!
my answer is Yes :)
when he will call me ill say : is it a joke he will say no of course
and then ill say : Jordan , Tell Riad back there to stop acting like a little boy AND JUST ASK ME OUT ALREADY????? If Its Not A joke !
Yes!
ok well I have to get off.
Remember if you don’t feel right about it than DONT DO IT!!
you can always wait and see what happens maybe he’ll ask you himself.. who knows!
byebye
bye ill tell you the news
oky doky!!
hope it’s good news!
i have good news but not about what you told me to say ..
yesterday.. i called Riad bcz Jordan Told me too i dont know why
i called Riad his like : huh thats weird how come . ok wtv
then i said : soo when is the tv show ?
( bcz last time we saw it togueter and we laughed )
he said : i dont know
then i saw that he didnt want to end the conversation ( over the phone )
he wanted to talk… but he had nothing to say
He Had to go bcz his phone was lousing batteries
then we slowly said bye..
i talked to Jordan and he is soo yelling at me
i told him : what are you doing
HE STARTED YELLING AT ME LIKE A CRAZY
he said : Chut up Or I Bloke You
Whats Him Dawn Problem !
I fell like never call him and never make contact with him ever again
He said wait and then he goes offlinee
Whats him dawn problem !!!!
That’s weird!
I have no idea why he would tell you to call Riad and then yell at you after.
Makes no sense to me I can see why you’re confused.
Is there anything else you can tell me about it??
Ok so the good news is Riad wanted to have a conversation with you and so stayed on the phone long. I remember never wanting to get off the phone with a girl I liked even when I had nothing to say. I would also say goodbye slowly.
Maybe ask Riad next time you talk about what happend with Jordan.
He must know something about why Jordan’s acting like that.
Should i talk to Jordan now ?
last time i told him :
you saw me u changed
i said that Riad Is Cutier then you .. you are yelling at me
next time if i say hii you will block me or what
No, I think you should wait a day!
He’s the one that should be calling you…
im not going to talk to him, text him or call him
its his job
Now next thing i should do is Call Riad And ask him whats going out
Yes, exactly call Riad!
Jordan needs to call you..
so did you start it by saying Riad is cutier than you?
Is that why he’s yelling?
Bcz like as i said i went to the park the other day with my friend
then when we had to go
Jordan called me like 20 minute after we left
he said : did u guys talk about us
i said yes
then he said : who is cutier and who will you go out with
i said : Riad
I Think its bcz of that
Maybe Its like bcz Jordan Wanted to go out with me and then i told him that Riad Is Better
Bcz Every time he wants to go to the park he says to me : Bring a friend with you
Maybe He Wants to like that girl to make me jealous or something
yes yes. of course that’s why he’s acting that way.
I think it was good you told him straight up who you want!!!!!
yes, I’m sure he did that on purpose at the park.
He’s gonna have to bsck off now and he probably will now that you said that.
Should i Just tell him :
I Like Riad
Deal With it
exactly!
it may hurt him but that’s what you need to do and he should leave you alone.
just send him or leave a message telling him what you told me
i Fell Good I Left Him A Message
If he doesn’t get it
now he will!!!
and will he tell Riad you like him..Probably but that’s what you want.
now.. what to do next. Should I Wait
Hmm im sure Jordan will cal me and say : What Did You Say On Msn ?
Ill Say it i dont care :
Listen Its Simple. I Like Riad, Forward This Message
For Sure He Will Say It
But Riad Will Call Me Saying If Its True
Ill Say : Yes What Do You Think About it ?
yes haha HE’ll GET IT!!!
yes, let Riad call you.. All you have to do now is relax and wait.
He might not even mention it at first, but he’ll know.
Just talk to him like you normally do and he’ll bring it up.
Hopefully he’ll ask you out first!
Lets Hope :D
but All This Is Becose You Helped Me
Thank Rly Alot
Ill Tell You Some Of My Newss Soon :P If he calls me
and if he doesn’t respond.
I’ll think about what you need to do.
If You Got The Answer
Tell Me ..
Im Waiting For You To Response
Bcz im not sure that he will respond
I need to think about it ok?
I want to make sure it’s the right thing!
I’ll give you an answer tomorrow! I should go now..
Hey vanou_6 maybe you should type another post here on help.com to see what other people think. It can be brief and to the point.
For Now .. Ill Count On You
oh that’s really nice:)
I hope I don’t screw anything up.
see ya.
its been a day…
He Is Online
And Didnt Respond.
i Hope Youve Got What to do :S
He didn’t respond?..Do you mean he didn’t talk to you AT ALL????
Or if you guys DID TALK was it a typical conversation with laughing and joking, but no mention of Jordan??
Or did you talk and notice him acting differently?
plz tell me!!
I didnt talk to jordan &
i didnt talk to Riad
ok ok well it’s just one day.
hopefully they’ll talk tomorrow.
Have you ever had a day were they didn’t talk to you?
Jordan : yes .. its the second time
Riad : Its rare that we talk.. we talk just if we have something to say…
sometimes i call him bcz i want to
Don’t panic over this!
First off if you haven’t already don’t call or text them for a while.
Let things settle. I’m sure Riad heard the news. Let him soak it in and don’t get all over him. Hopefully he’ll contact you soon. This is what you need to do now!!
and if he doesn’t then you call him.. just wait awhile though like another day or so.
so i have to wait
or im just better when im over him
he probably doesnt like me that much…
and when i try to talk to Jordan he doesnt answer
how to make sure that he read it
if i call Riad.. What am i suposed to say ? i like you ?
i fell soo lonely and i fell that he forgot me
Yes, wait!!! That’s the best thing you can do.
Let things settle like I said. DON’T CONTACT THEM!
NO NO don’t give up just yet!
When you do talk to Riad don’t bring anything up about it right away. Just have a normal fun conversation. He already knows you like him and he’ll be expecting you to say that, but if you don’t he’ll chase you more.. u know what I mean?! It will confuse and even upset him alittle to the point where he’ll go after you more like before which is what you want.
Believe me he’s been thinking about you a lot today.
Come on don’t get all upset.. It’s one day!!
He probably doesn’t know what to say yet.
I still believe this can work!
I’ve seen it happen with other people.. same thing.
but if he calls me and ask me :
Do u like me ?
I Say Yes Straight ? or a yes slowly ?
umm try to turn the question around first!
Ask him if he likes you.
soo its likes :
Riad : Do You Like me ?
Me : Wait.. Answer Me First Do you like me ?
yeah try that first.
and if you do answer say it slowly!
I know people should say it straight but in your case I htink it’s best not to.
Soo
Riad : Do You Like me ?
Me : Wait… Do You Like Me ?
Him : I Asked First
Me : Ok.. *breathing* yes i like you
Me : Do you like me ?
THEN THE ANSWER
yeah, but drag it out even more when you say it and laugh a little too.
just to lighten things up
oh ok .. soo like im waiting his call
If Jordan Calls o.o
Or when he asks you.. “Do you like me?” say, “I don’t know yet, but I knoooow you like meeeee… sooooo when are you gonna ask me out. huh?” *both laughing*
imagine he says : ‘no i dont like you’
well, he could just be messing with you.
Deep down I think he actually does.
and It’ll just come out slowly over time.
just ignore it and go back to having fun!!!
If he really means it then yeah it’s over.
but lets not think like that ok.
his messing with me :O
so whats the point of going back to having fun
ok imagine he says yes.. and i say yes
what should i say then ?
Him : do u like me ?
Me: yes u?
Him :yes
Then.. ?
It’s to pretend like it never happened. Like you don’t care.
It means it happened prematurely, but you should not give up.
yes think like that now!!:))
You: Are you gonna ask me out finally?
coool:)
do u think he will call me soon ?
Yes I do, but give it a day or two ok? and don’t call him.
Stop thinking about all the different possible outcomes.
Be optimistic it will work.
alright now have a good night!
I went to the store..
And Guess Who Called ?
Jordan -_-
he was like : im soory for the other day.. its beacose i had a fight with Riad
And he was all nice to me and all
i was like : ah ok.. i understand
then i Called Riad Thats the convo:
-Him Answering in a funny voice-
Me : Lol Hi Riad :) how r u ?
him : good you?
me : good .. soo tell me what was the fight with Jordan About?
Him : None Of Your Business
Me : Ahh ok then. Bye
Him : oookooookkkkk Byeeee ( SLOWLY !! )
- Riad Was Kind Of Rude -
- Jordan Was Nice -
EXPLAIN PLZ
Well, it’s good they both talked again!
It was like the opposite of the other day. Jordan was mean and Riad was okay.
Read your little conversation again. It started out good,but then right away you asked him about the fight and he just didn’t want to talk about it. Instead of hanging up right away you should of started a different conversation. Just don’t ask Riad again.. Ask Jordan what the fight was about.
hmmm I wonder what that fight was about.. YOU perhaps?!
Also, I don’t think Riad was that rude and if you haven’t brought that up right away I think it he would of been fine. He answered in a funny voice and said bye slowly. I think he wanted to continue talking, but you said bye quick.
To tell you the truth what you did was GOOD hanging up fast!
I’m sure he’ll be calling you back soon:)
I’ll talk to you more later.
Should i call Jordan And ask him what was it about?
Yes!.. and if he says, “it’s none of your business” too or “it was nothing” then it was probably a fight over you!
i’ll do it today..
& i’ll tell you what happend
wow we had a talk on msn … !
Jordan was laughing with me in the begining
i was like :
plz answer my question
he said :
ok what
i said :
why were you fighting whit Riad
He said :
i didnt fight with ure lover, ure lover is my best friend
i said :
hey chut up
then i said :
dont call him my lover..
he said :
ok
i said :
bcz i care for you too
he said :
oh ya
i said :
ya and i sont like you ok u have a gf
then he made that emoticon:
;D
ok it’s good he says your lover Riad! I’m sure being his bestfriend
he told him how you felt.
um it’s good you said I care for you too,
but I think you shouldn’t of added that and the “i don’t like you.. u have a gf” part. oh well, that’s ok though..
I think things are moving in the right direction!
Hopefully Riad will start talking to u soon now;)
you will think he will call me ..
and see say how he fells
i told : i dont like you
bcz Jordan will say :
ohh she likes me and blablablaa
sorry my last post had no sense
i jsut wanna know what to do next
sorry I was reading other people’s posts.
Next thing to do is wait a day to see if Riad talks to you.
That’s all I can say for now just don’t push him to talk.
Forget the whole “I like you.. do you like me?” for now.
There’ll be a time for that. What I’m saying is don’t ask him..let Riad ask you.
Maybe if Jordan calls ask him when he’s hanging out with Riad again
and try making plans with him and Riad.
Also, take time to be happy:)
You took a big step already!
time is killing you huh?
relax girl..
ill try ..
but they always say : BRING PEOPLE !
nobody whats to come..
i maked it clear that nobody whats to see him ( of my friends )
bcz Jordan is the friend of my ex bf.. and they hate my ex.
i always say : my friend comes.. the girl of last time.. if you wanna see me.. uve got to see my friend. i aint going without her
is it good ? :P
yes, that’s goood!
Do that. Hopefully you can set up something soon.
alright well, I gotta get off my dad wants me
sorry I’ll talk to you later..
byyee.
i called Jordan Today…
He was talking slowly…
is there a reason`??
How would I know.
Maybe he was just tired or something.
It could be nothing.
Tell me more..
Is this the first time you noticed this?
its been a day for Riad.. hopefully tomorow he will call
well, with Jordan I wouldn’t make a big thing over it unless it happens again.
He’s coming to the fact that you really don’t like him..so he may be like that at times.
As for Riad.. I hope so too!
Tell me what happens tomorrow.
If there’s nothing than we gotta
make something happen!
Uh I feel bad now..I hope it’s nothing serious!!!
Tell me:(
Look, we can figure something out whatever it is.
There are ways around most things.
Ok check
Jordan & me ’s convo
Me : what are you doing?
Him : talking to a hot girl
Me : its good 4 you
Him : .
Me : what do u want me to say
Him : nothing
Him : riad is kind of hot.. xd talk to him
Me : he doesnt like me
Me: soo.. whats the use ?
Him : he is going sec.3 u sec.2
Me : and..
Him : it doesnt match
Me : wtf !
Me : if you want to say that he doesnt like me .. just say it dont make me fell bad!
Me : he didnt tell me nothing about ‘’you guys togueter'’
Me: ask him
Him : nah
Him : you ask him
Me : me ? what am i suposed to say ?
Him : i dont know
Me : exactly !
Me :me ok i do every thing to make him admit that he likes me .. i think i was wrong
Him : you see ! with me it was the same thing before!
Me : did you like me ?!
Him : no ! but you liked me and you did every thing just so i could like you
Me : i didnt like you!
Him : hahaha before knowing riad
Me : i juste liked you before knowing you had a gf !
Me : i dont like you . i like riad
Him : k look…
Him: i dont care
Me : and him doesnt like me
Him : it bodurs me when something loves someone they dont even know !
Me : thank you jordan
Me : i fell realy bad
Me : i fell soo bad knowing that i loosed time with you and riad
Me : and too wait next to the phone
Him : thats not what i wanted to say…
Me : well you said it
Me : you wanted me to fell like this ?
Me : then you did it
Him : i wanted to say..
Him : ahh its complicated. forget it lol
Me : i fell bad rly bad
Him : why dont you like someone from your school ? xd
Me : non ! when i told you that i like a guy be4 knowing riad. it was you then riad
Him : k ?
Me : i hate admiting that i waited hours ans hours next to the phone for you guys
Me : and my friend telling me to get over you guys
Him : o.o
Him : sorry
Me : you dont know what i suffer to just talk to you guys and go to the park !
Me : at my bff’s party
Me : what was i doing?
Me : i was on the phone talking and texting with you and riad !
Me : and i hate when you ask me to talk with my friend and bring friends over to the park!
Me : ad i do everything for you and riad
Me : then im like omg riad doesnt like me
Him : lol
Me : i do everything but every thing
Me : how do u think i fell ?!
Me : its unbelevable
Him : nobody told you to do all this
Him : its not my fault riad doesnt like you
Me : i know its not your fault
Me : put the blame on me i dont care
Me : ok bye thx. for the information. ps : dont juge anything if you didnt live it
What to do. help !
Reply Me As soon as possible!!!
i feel bad to hear that.
Idk but you have to remember that Jordan likes you and what he said here he could of been playing with you. How do you know he wasn’t making that up?! He’s a jealous guy.. He could of been purposely trying to make you feel bad! I mean he’s telling you he’s talking to hot girls blah blah blah..Come on.. NO, HE’S NOT! I think he’s making things up or exaggerating them.
Has Riad talked to you?
IT NEEDS TO COME OUT OF HIS MOUTH that he doesn’t like you!!!
ok, you need to talk to him not Jordan.
I still think he does like you (Riad) regardless of what Jordan says.
Maybe it’s not to the level we want it and so you need to work on it.
DON’T GIVE UP YET!!! Riad has not told you that..so come on.
Time to go back to where you were and forget all this stuff.
Start talking to Riad and have fun conversations again and don’t even mention what you talked about with Jordan and Don’t ask Riad if he likes you.
Just have fun again. Maybe even make Riad a little jealous too.
If you close it off now and he says “no I don’t like you.”
then it’s over.. so don’t ask! Go back to having fun to hopefully get him to like you more than he does. That’s what you need to do.
I hope all this is not a joke..
Bcz Jordan Said : ‘’He Didnt say nothing about you guys'’
soo you never knoww…
soo i should call Riad and have fun..
eventualy hell say something
Hey
I kind of have good news.. but it not That good..
I talked with Jordan.. and i said that i dont want to loose contact with him
bcz his a good friend.. he understood me and we started laughing but nothing realy happend..
he still have a girlfriend
and a guy likes me but i dont like him that much
so i thawt that i should wait for one of them to make a move
( Jordan Or Riad )
But i dont know if its going to go some where with them
like if its worth it
what sould i do im realy lost
Should i call Riad and ask him whats up
Should i call Jordan and ask him whats up
Should i love the guy i mostly know
Is it worth waiting for Riad..
I dont know what to do
Plz Tell me im confused
yes, that is good news!
so who’s this other guy?
Maybe you can make Riad a little Jealous.
No I wouldn’t call Riad or Jordan let them call you.
Yes, you should certainly give it some time and wait for Riad.
i know Riad will never call me
but Jordan when he fells guilty or he wants to see me he will call me
that other guy is a guy from my school
he has a kick on me since we started secondairy school
its complicated to say how long
but he is nice to me and all but how to make Riad jealous!
one question how old are you?
well, to make Riad jealous you simply let him know (not directly) that this other guy is after you. Then act happy and layoff of Riad for awhile. If he has any feelings at all no matter how small he’ll come to you in some way. I mean right now he knows he has you. If he wanted you he has you. His guard is down at the moment. Remember before when he had no idea you liked him like that?!.. so he pursued you. Now that he knows you like him and he could have you.. he has nothing to chase. Sorry I can’t explain why that is, but it’s definitely worth a try to make him alittle jealous.
I’m 20.. why?
I hope that makes sense..
if not let me know!
i dont rly understand ur post :P
why i ask how old r u is bcz u know what you are saying and you are soo sure of yourself i just wanted to know
can you explain me how to say to Riad.?
oh sorry you don’t understand.. I don’t think I can make it any clearer for you so I’m sorry.. maybe read it again.
I am sure of myself!..I’m sure that Riad is in fact interested in you and does like you to some extent. The problem has been trying to determine HOW MUCH he likes you.
You have to understand that I’m just going by what you have been telling me for the past two weeks. If I were there it would be easier to figure this out.
Doing this online is tough. I’m sure you understand?
Anyway, I wouldn’t say anything to Riad. Say it to Jordan and I’m sure he’ll tell him cuz they’re best friends and all.
Use a happy upbeat voice and say, “Hey, this guy I know likes me and aww he’s soo nice.” Jordan will of course ask questions and you just answer them being all cheery and happy. If he says something about Riad be like “I’m moving on now he had his chance.” Then later Jordan will relate this to Riad. “Boy Riad, she sounds happy and excited about this new guy.”
That’s one way.
Maybe he will just forget me.. and let me go
so you want to just give up?
I so badly wished it would of worked out for you.
I feel really bad!
y do u want to be negative..it’s not all over yet!
come on..
he told me he has a girlfriend.. ( im talking to him now )
what should i do im dying !
i cant beleve i puted effort for this and i dont have a good thing
hmm that sucks :(((
I don’t even know what to say except I’m sorry.
Just don’t blame yourself..blame me.
no, you helped me, u encouraged me
uve been there for me
ill just blame myself, like usual
do u have a msn?
No No I said don’t blame yourself!
and thanks for saying I helped you even know the outcome wasn’t what we wanted:((
I encourage you to keep your head up high.
You’re a good girl and you’re gonna find
somebody that’s gonna love you.
somebody way better than him trust me!
I have myspace.. do you?
oh, what’s msn
like a chat thing?
Yes, go to www.hotmail.com
if you ever get a msn
heres mine :
i> small>(email removed) /small> /i>
And Thank You Very Much
But i always think negative
So its ok
Dont blame urself
if you ever have a msn contact me
oh hey thanks!
I will contact you in the future to see how you are.
Remember you can find me here too.. just give me a shout.
By the way, you can’t leave your email here
you have to space it out like this @-h-o-t-m-a-i-l.c-o-m
I actually do have hotmail just not a chat thing set up.
I hope you feel better soon.
good luck vanou_6!
so its like vanou_64 @-h-o-t-m-a-i-l.c-o-m
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