school help: I feel like i don’t belong in my own house

Kanabi

I feel like i don’t belong in my own house

All the time, i’m always the one being asked to do stuff when my sister is right there and i’ve been running around doing stuff all day, my sister locks me out, shoves me, punches and basically beats me up if i do some little thing wrong, if something happens, i’m always the one blamed, when my dog died i said i was going with, and my sister said i just wanted to go so that i wouldn’t have to goto school. so, basically, my sister makes me feel like an outcast in my own house. every day, i hate being there more and more, i dont know what to do anymore. hellow, life is not fair some time. have you had this problem all your life? look deep down inside your self. do you love your sister? i had a big brother that was like her. didnt want me around. never told me that he love me as his brother. know now 35 years have passed. we both made it threw those trying times. older sister ,just want there pace. make new friends. join some good positive clubs. go to a nursing home .cheer up the elderly. they need it. a lot of them are alone. sports and school activity are good. go out for acting. i hope this message of hope help you.

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gingerfrag 1 #
Marion, NC, US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 minutes after post)

Have a talk with your sister. Tell her what you are telling help. If that does not help the situation, talk with your parents.

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iseeu 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (8 minutes after post)

I agree, if your sister is making you feel so bad you should really talk about this with your parents. ]:

Kanabi 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (10 minutes after post)

I’ve told them that she’s making my life miserable and they always tell me to “ignore” her, but that doesnt help. shes broken my bedroom door already since I tried to ignore her

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gingerfrag 1 #
Marion, NC, US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (11 minutes after post)

Maybe your sister has a problem that you are not aware of and your parents do not want to tell you. Try talking to them again. Be specific about how you are feeling.

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Kanabi 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (14 minutes after post)

i dont think she does. She just likes pissing me off.

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iseeu 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (15 minutes after post)

Maybe you could try spending more time away from her?
Try going to a friend’s house or something.

gingerfrag 1 #
Marion, NC, US | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (18 minutes after post)

Walking away from her would be a good idea. She obviously gets under your skin and she seems to like it. She may be trying to get your attention, but does not know how to do it a positive way.

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littlenick 142 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (51 minutes after post)

How old are you and how old is your sister?

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NOLA Lady 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 hour, 43 minutes after post)

littlenick wrote:
How old are you and how old is your sister?

Yes i would able be to help better if I knew this.
I had ayounger sister and she made my life miserable too. She was the favorite too.

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Kanabi 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (3 hours, 45 minutes after post)

she’s 16, I’m 15. See, we get along sometimes, but other times not at all.

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knightsin135 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (5 hours, 46 minutes after post)

My younger sister (directly under me were like that) and I do mean violent- I spent a lot of time trying to get away from her- she broke my door twice before I gave up fixing it… the last major incident was 5 years ago… then my grandparents got really sick and we had to pull together and they had to let me take care of them… Now we get along much better… but back then I would start dreaming out for what I wanted with my life… I thought about colleges, majors, traveling, who I wanted to be, where I wanted to be it… everything to make my life bearable… I love my parents dearly, but they dismissed the problem too easily also… sometimes it’s hard for parents to think there could be something really wrong at home or something that really need a lot of work or attention… they can exasperate the situation at times by making it a non-situation… Anyway good luck to you and your sister and know that one day it will pass.

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NOLA Lady 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 4 minutes after post)

16 year old girls are going through difficult stuff just like you are. However she is lashing out at you as her way of venting and dealing. It proably give her some control over her life. She is not right in doing this. Your parents should correct her too. However she will proably be leavingin 2 years for college so hang in there. I would ask her too what the hell have I ever done to you for me to deserve this hatred from you? See what she says. SHe may stop. She is one angry young woman.

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Kanabi 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (18 hours, 28 minutes after post)

this is something she has always done

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NOLA Lady 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (20 hours, 13 minutes after post)

Then ask her why she hates you?

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Kanabi 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (21 hours, 8 minutes after post)

i think she just does. the ancient sibling rivalry thing you know? But she’s just beyond mean to me sometimes.

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NOLA Lady 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (1 day, 18 hours after post)

I think you are right. It is the ancient rivelry

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